Were you spanked as a child?

[Guest LittleBoyChris]

I was spanked by my Dad, adult authority figures when I crossed a line staying with them usually with a slipper and as was common place at the time at school which for me involved a period at a boarding school. No bad thoughts about those times.

Edited February 18, 2021 by LittleBoyChris

[LilDemonBaby]

yes, i was spanked. unfortunately it wasnt in a good way. at the time it was a form of abuse and they used tools that bruised. it didnt matter if i misbehaved or not. This is why i only allow hands. period. 

[RavenclawPrincess]

I got spanked once for punishment as a kid and laughed in their face about it, so I reckon that jives with the brat thing I have going on nowadays lol. Spanking was never an effective punishment for me so I suppose that's why my parents didn't take that route after the first time that they gave it a go. 

[Littlepanda93]

I was spanked often when I was a kid. A wooden spoon was used most of the time and in one case the spoon broke. It is part of the reason that if I get in trouble I will only allow spanking with a hand and no object. 

[Athena-BubbleBee]

Mainly the slipper, even gave my father a new pair for Xmas as his seem to of worn a flex  in them which added to the bite. It didn’t work as he kept his old pair just for punishment, he even wrote our names on them. My stepmother however liked the belt and often used the buckle cos I looked like my mum (don’t worry I’m over it, she got her dues). I only had one Daddy he spanked with hand only, but that was years ago. Think my bottom might of got soft now, would like to explore punishment if I found the right Daddy, have tried self punishment, don’t think it’s the same though (although might be wrong on that, like I said been very very long time).

[clumsy_little]

On 11/8/2018 at 11:49 PM, Guest FairgroundAlice89 said:

Yes. And hit, slapped, punched, scalded, shouted at, stripped and humiliated.

Welp, my childhood was the same.  

Edited June 23, 2022 by clumsy_little

[Vampiress]

Yes, and it wasn't even amongst the worst punishments I received growing up. I would get spanked with hand, leather belt, or a wooden boat paddle (long handle) until my mom broke it using it on me. I tended to prefer this over her other go to punishment when I was really young, which was grounding me for weeks on end and I was only allowed to sit on my bed and do nothing all day. Couldn't even read books or do anything in my room. Wasn't allowed to fall asleep until she told me to go to bed. She caught on to my preference when I was given options so they stopped giving me the option and opted for the ones I hated most.

When I got a little older these forms of punishments stopped but gave way to much more severe physical, mental, and emotional punishment but I won't get into that.

[Andriel_Isilien]

Yes, I got spanked. My mom told me when I was very small I didn't understand the danger of running out into the road. No words could get the message across except the threat of being spanked for darting out in traffic. So yeah, that was effective and just. In fact, I remember the very last time my mom spanked me. I was about 11 and I felt so humiliated to be given that at that age. Other methods were used as punishments: time out in the corner for bad behavior and hot sauce on my tongue for swearing or sassing back. Funny thing about this though... now as an adult I actually like spanks, hot spicy foods, and spending time alone by myself. LOL Whoops! But I don't identify as a bratty little. The punishments themselves were not harmful to me but the message I would interpret was very detrimental. I can't stand making someone else upset or sensing that they are disappointed in me. None of the spanks or hot sauce felt abusive but the emotional security that I am still loved and wanted could have been communicated better. So, I became a die-hard people pleaser. And I think that me being a highly sensitive person emotionally is who I am in my core regardless if I got spanked or not.

[WigglyBun]

I didn't get spanked a lot, but I was a very quiet child who spent most of my time alone. The few times I was spanked my parents quickly realized that I didn't understand it at all, and that it was more effective to make me sit in a corner without my favourite book/stuffie (whatever it was that I was obsessed with at the time).

As an adult I enjoy spankings, the pain takes me out of my head for a little while and relaxes me. However, having my favourite items taken away/removed/whatever from me causes me extreme distress, so that definitely causes issues.

[Cebakes]

I was spanked, paddled with a metal ruler as well as a wooden paddle.  Probably  less than 10 times total. I did get paddled several times in school. That was still a thing back in the day.

I did not paddle my children.

 

[Queenwarriorprincess]

On 12/5/2018 at 7:28 PM, Tinka said:

ehm. a lot of physical abuse by my father, since i was 2 DAYS old newborn until 16 , then threats of death and mental abuse until 26 i think. 

 

He would shake me hard until my breath would stop and then throw me at the baby crib because i was crying due to newborn stomach ache.

He would kick me at my spine because i was sitting silently at the stairs waiting for my mom who was away from me for 15 days.

He would punch me in the head because i said that a brand of chips had the ''salt and vinegar'' type of chips on a small package too.

He would threw me (with the chair) on the floor and break the table because my eraser was not placed respectfully next to my hand but a few cm away.

He would hit repeatedly my head on the wall because i forgot my jacket at home and went to school without it. 

He would do the same things to my newborn sister when i was 13 years old so i would have to step up and make him hit me, and not the baby. 

But no, there were no spanks  

This breaks my heart. You did not and still do not deserve any of this treatment. I hope you know you deserve love and happiness and comfort as much as the next person. You are so brave and such a beautiful soul for saving your baby sister from that abuse as much as you could. I wish I could give you a hug!!!! You're an amazing person from what I can tell!!!! **Sending long distance hugs** I have two little ones right now (1 and 3) and the thought of either of them being shaken or kicked or beaten or thrown against a wall makes me ill. I hope you've found peace and happiness in adulthood ❤️

 

I experienced a lot of neglect - emotional and physical but was only spanked three times (I felt so betrayed each time). 

[LoverEcho]

I was spanked fairly often as a child. I was not disrespectful by any means, but some mental health issues as a pre-teen led me to occasionally question and talk back to my parents. They kept an old leather belt hung up in the entryway closet for easy reach. Most often I was spanked with it but sometimes it was a hand. 
 

As an adult, I attribute my anger issues with being spanked. The spankings have also led to my avoidance of caring for my mental health at times as I correlate the two because I know what I was going through at the time. I can’t say they have affected me as a little/middle even in the presence of punishment. I suppose that has a lot to do with consent and my knowing when and why something is happening. 

[ChubbyMoonie]

I was spanked (and more)  a lot in my childhood just because, and I was a very quiet girl. Never really understood why. 

[beanbean]

i was some bordering on abuse now a days ,but it most likley made me into a spanko lol so theres that

[Babygirl2019]

I was always getting in trouble when i was younger because of what my sister did. I could never be a kid though i had to take care of my sister n my little cousins. I have always had to control my little side so that it was in my mind and not my actions.