abuse of trust

[bgGoddess]

my DD was mad I wouldn't make another video of myself. He has now threatened to post the ones I sent him online (tumbler) with my address!!! I'm so stupid for trusting. I really wanted to believe that this person was as kind as he appeared to be. I'm so sick to my stomach. I really wanted to transition into this lifestyle, but now I'm too afraid to ever give anyone that must trust again!!

 

Do you have any advice. 

 

Learned this the hard way!!!!

[LB Chris]

If this person is on Tumblr you may report them for their conduct if any of it occured on Tumblr or the  threat to post material you do not consent to.

[GentleDaddyDom]

I can tell you for sure, that isn't a real Daddy. That is someone manipulative, and they are blackmailing you.

 

If they continue to threaten you, call the police. What they're doing is illegal.

 

You need to distance yourself from them, as this is clearly something they don't feel remorse for, and would very easily do again. Don't let one person dissuade you from a lifestyle you desire! Take some time to yourself to heal, and explore. And if anyone tries to fill that role again, make extra sure to take your time, and ensure that they aren't someone that would do anything like this, or anything at all to hurt you or abuse your trust.

[Guest Sae]

Here is something I found on tumblr, Its more aimed towards sex workers but to be honest, it can be for anyone.

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"Know your rights. This kind of bullshit behavior can be considered intentional infliction of emotional distress, negligence, stalking, harassment, blackmail and/or invasion of privacy in a court of law. Civil restraining orders to prevent him/her from posting the images may be possible. It depends on the state you live in, but a few sites I’ve found on the subject of legality are

EndRevengePorn.org

Legal Rights for Nude Photos

Revenge Porn Legislation by State

Revenge Porn: Laws and Penalities

What You Can Do if Someone Steals or Misuses Your Photos

If you ever feel that your safety is threatened, PLEASE tell someone. Call the authorities and report them. As for now, I would research your options through sites like WomensLaw orEndRevengePorn and make sure they know you aren’t afraid to take action, only IF you feel safe and comfortable doing so."

 

 

I would personally suggest not to talk to that person anymore. Give his info to the cops and cut ties with him. Contact tumblr support, and let them know whats going on. If you see the post screen shoot it before you report it so you have proof, and than give that proof to your police officer that is working on your case. Its really scary and I'm sorry you have to deal with that. 

[Misund3rstood]

To be honest, this type of thing can happen in any type of relationship. Don't let one bad apple ruin your passion for the lifestyle. In my opinion, from what I have seen since I became interested in this particular dynamic about a year and a half ago, is that there are a lot of "fake" Daddies out there. So I agree with the fact that you should take some time to recover from this incident, but don't give up your search for a Daddy completely if it is something that you truly want. Just make sure you take your time with the next one, and don't give your trust away so easily. Trust and submission are things that Doms/Daddies are supposed to earn anyway. And a real Daddy will know this, and let it be known to you that he does. Sorry this happened to you, but hey lesson learned, right? I wish you the best of luck and hope that you are able to move past this with as much ease as possible. 

[cutie_patootie]

I feel bad for you bg Goddess, I hope things turn out for the best in the end.  And I'm not criticising the choices you've made but this is exactly why I will never post a picture of myself in any of my little or baby outfits, esp not any of me wearing a nappy.  The pictures in my gallery are of plain old ordinary me... nothing more.  I won't even give out my real name on this site nor any other site for that matter.  I would have to meet someone and get to know them extremely well before I would even consider trusting them with anything other than ordinary pictures of me or my real name.  Even then, I would be very, very careful... you see, I too have been hurt before and I'm still putting the pieces of my heart back together.  Hopefully, some Elmer's glue will help...  http://elmers.com/images/default-source/product-catalog-images/e305-jpg.jpg?Status=Master&sfvrsn=2

 

Anyway, please know that you do have friends here and some have already offered to help.  I wish you all the best and if you ever need someone to listen, my ears are ready... without any judgement.

[bgGoddess]

Thank you everyone. I've deleted all my contact with him. I've unplugged from the internet and have been more engaged in the real world. I went against my own instincts because I felt pressure to please him. Never again. My morals first. 

 

These were private short videos emailed to him. So far, he hasn't contacted me again. I hope he moves on and doesn't do this to anyone else.

 

Thank you for the support.

[Cherry41]

I think you made the right decision. No matter what your lifestyle, that is just not a decent way to deal with disappointment that you didn't send any more videos. Sadly, many people just aren't as kind and decent as they come across. I love my Daddy named Jacob...but before I met him...I had a friend and potential Daddy and a non DDlg female friend who turned out to be bad people. To be fair, he may just be easily manipulated rather than vindictive. She is vindictive. I didn't do anything sexual with her...but she still managed to use threats, gossip, and other things to control me and get revenge. It was sad to lose a friend at first, but later I realized that I didn't so much lose a friend as gain freedom and peace of mind.