I’ll never find a Daddy that will love me.

[JJBee]

I wish everyone would be honest. I don’t want to be left without any word. Happens all the time and is so mean. Maybe all my luck ran out.

[TheManWithNoName]

Yeah, people tend to take advantage of the internet's anonymity. If they say "I think im done" severing all ties with a person is as easy as blocking them on some social media platforms and changing their username. 

 

Its unfortunate that that happened to you, and I wish you better luck in the future . Most of the time, you can see it coming before the day you wake up and youre blocked on everything, however sometimes you cannot.

[Bambi95]

Ok look I’m gonna be blunt and it’s not meant to be bitchy so I’m sorry if I offend you.

You’re only 22. You have all the time in the world to find someone who loves you. I found the love of my life when I gave up trying. Honestly it seems to work for a lot of people.

 

I know it sucks when you get ghosted but there comes a time where you will have to get over it and move on. I’m sure it hurts feeling like you did something wrong. But throwing a pity party isn’t going to help either. Don’t wallow in self pity. Be better and show them what they missed out on. Try not to let it get you down. Think of it as a lesson

[Guest Aetherr]

i'm a firm believer in the idea that there is someone out there for everyone, i wouldnt be soo quick to give up but consider relaxing a bit and just let things happen when they are supposed to happen

[Guest Naturalselectionissexy]

Funny thing is you don't really want honesty, you want empathy and someone that will never leave you unless it is on your terms.

 

Honesty sucks huh?

[Irish]

Not to jump in on the bandwagon, but honesty is a far cry from kindness.

 

 

You'll be fine. Keep looking.

[SamL]

 but honesty is a far cry from kindness.

 

There is a way to be both.  I don't always achieve it, but I do always try.

[Guest Arc]

If you tell yourself you will never find someone.... then you probably won't. Because you'll be so fixated on those negative thoughts that you'll probably miss potential partners that do come up, or you'll put them off with your negativity. I obviously can't speak for everyone but little is more unattractive than the "i will never have this/do this/be this" attitude to me. ._.

 

Yeah it sucks that this happens and it does hurt but you just gotta move on and keep trying. Don't let the bad experiences make you miss out on a potentially good one in the future. 

[MysticSand]

TL;DR : Love yourself and be open to love!

 

This may be a little off topic, and I don't mean to offend, but simply to put the thought out there: Do you love yourself?

 

I'm a firm believer that you need to love yourself first, before you can make that commitment to love another and have another love you. I ask if you love yourself because your topic includes the word "never." Sure, having that SO in one's life is amazing, but... shouldn't necessarily be necessary. The usage of the word 'never' makes me a little nervous because I get the connotation that you're holding out on being happy because you haven't found 'the one' yet. (Yet - because I agree with Aetherr in that I think there's someone for everyone.)

 

I know to each their own and that it is literally some peoples' end all to have an SO and be married and all that jazz, but it'd be unfair to expect someone else to 'complete you' (as movies so often like to play up). I always think that people should be complete as individuals, and have SO's to compliment them. ^^

 

To re-iterate Arc and in reference to your thinking that it's luck that brings love... yes and no. Invite positive energy in your life, and in time the universe will be attuned to it. (Hopefully! It's akin to the self-fulfilling prophecy in a sense.)

[Daddy.Astor]

you are still young i'm sure allot of daddy,s are out there for you just have to find it... i just joined and many others will follow so no need to give up 

[Guest Juddon]

Everything happens for a reason ~ you'll find one, but sometimes it takes yourself to be initiative to find the right one ~ to know and grow. It's a gamble, but know that you will find the right one. He's out there, maybe here on this forum, maybe elsewhere who hasn't realized his hidden side of being a daddy. Don't falter and lose hope ~ eventually you'll meet that person that makes you feel like he gets you ~ he understands you and will be well deserved. ~ We wish you all the best and with hopes you will find the answer and someone that makes you feel appreciated ~ 

[pixelkitten]

Hey, I just wanted to chime in a little bit here too. I once before looked for a daddy online, trying to find someone who was interested in the dynamic like I was, and there were so many people who were just pretending to be a daddy because they thought it was kinky and hot, but when it came time for me wanting the non-sexual caregiving aspects of ddlg, they were uninterested and nowhere to be found.

Then I stopped looking for a ddlg type partner, I figured I would just enjoy being little alone and leave it at that... and I met my current SO. I had NO idea that he was in any way remotely interested in this, until he said "Do ___ for Daddy" when we were having sex once. I was like ...what did you say? & Here we are. 

So my point is, stop looking for someone specifically in this narrow group, find someone who accepts you for you, explain that you are a little childish sometimes (that is how I explain it to my closest friends, nothing more) and if they are okay with that, the perfect person for you can LEARN to be a great Daddy. Some people have it, some people don't. But I feel like you will know if they are the right person for you or not. DDLG is a small community, and like many of us, there are many "Daddies" out there who haven't yet put their finger on it, just as we discovered that we are actually "littles" and what that means. They could be normal people like everyone else, interested the Dom/Sub dynamic, they just haven't discovered DDLG yet.

 

TL;DR: Stop looking and the right person will find you.

[Arenvos]

That happened to me too, my so-called Daddy ghosted me, trusted him and everything, then I guess I wasn't fun for him anymore and he split, sucks when it happens, but I am glad for the experiance, he made me remember to not trust someone like that again.

 

I'm glad I got ghosted, made me see the persons true colors, and I can now say if he came back and tried to make up for it, I wouldn't trust him like that again. No way I will be his Little again.

 

But yeah, it seems like you won't find someone, but unless you are like me, who can't sexualize or romanticize, you will find someone...

 

Good luck

[Guest nathegoes]

Give it time, love isn't easy to find but it is worth all the trouble along the way.