Skirts and dresses only

[MrPaulDavies]

Hello

 

Has anyone else had a skirts and dresses only rule for their little? How has it worked for you?

[Guest Prat]

Too restrictive, also yoga pants are life.

[Strict]

Yes I have and it worked so fine     

for me

 

But then the weather can be so difficult and though I loved it, I had to make compromises which I hate making so if I look into it again then it will only be on a day to day basis

[Guest Arc]

It can work as long as the rule is flexible.

 

I've often had rules on clothing, from only being allowed X to not being allowed Y to having to having to ask every day if my outfit choice is okay by them. And things like clothing rules do need to be flexible because unexpected things happen. Like they spill something on the dress at someone else's house and someone offers them pants while it gets washed? You don't want them having a freak out thinking they're breaking the rules. Or they may be on their period and just want to curl up in sweat pants on the couch lol. Or it may be a super cold windy day and leggings underneath aren't enough to keep warm and comfortable. You'd also need to give allowances if they go to the gym or any other kind of physical activity where a dress or skirt would be super annoying. 

 

It can work. You just have to be flexible because life happens and skirts and dresses aren't suitable for everything. 

[TheRedKnight]

Works for me.

 

Or else I walk.

[Kyu]

Works for me.

 

Or else I walk.

 

That's the dealbreaker? To each their own but.. damn man.

[MadelynVictoria]

How is that even possible? What if I'm going to the gym? Or it's the middle of winter? I'm supposed to freeze my ass off, and work out in a dress/skirt? Sorry, but it's not completely doable.

[CherieBits]

As a little, I would be very unhappy if I had a "skirts and dresses only" rule. While that's only my personal preference, as I'm not comfortable wearing that kind of stuff out in public, regardless, it's a little too... forceful to have a "skirts and dresses only" rule. At the very least, it should be thats what you PREFER, but not what she HAS to wear.

[Guest Aetherr]

As a little, I would be very unhappy if I had a "skirts and dresses only" rule. While that's only my personal preference, as I'm not comfortable wearing that kind of stuff out in public, regardless, it's a little too... forceful to have a "skirts and dresses only" rule. At the very least, it should be thats what you PREFER, but not what she HAS to wear.

 

not really, while you may not like being told what to wear some subs do enjoy it and there is nothing wrong with it

[playroompunk]

I mostly wear skirts and dresses because it's what I prefer.  But the weather and one's activities can create restrictions.   Where I live, in the winter it gets far too cold to go out in a dress without wearing fleece lined tights and legwarmers.  And at my university gym, you get told to leave and change if you're dressed inappropriately, like in skirts or jeans.

 

I agree with some of the above posters. I think you can make such a rule work so long as it's reasonable, as in, you're not limiting your little's daily activities and you're not letting her freeze and catch her death!

Edited November 18, 2018 by Forest Child

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[junebug0325]

The rule has to be flexible. What am I supposed to do when I go the gym? What about if I'm in a play or show? What about during winter? I live in Ohio and there is no way I would leave my house in a dress or skirt when it's -17 degrees, and I think as a Daddy you should understand that rules sometimes need compromises. 

[SmartAssLittle]

The rule has to be flexible. What am I supposed to do when I go the gym? What about if I'm in a play or show? What about during winter? I live in Ohio and there is no way I would leave my house in a dress or skirt when it's -17 degrees, and I think as a Daddy you should understand that rules sometimes need compromises.

 

You will not go to gym, you can work out at home.

You will not play or show (I dont know what that means LOL),or you will wear skirt.

You will wear thick stockings if is winter.

 

That easy.

[LittleBunnyCici]

You will not go to gym, you can work out at home.

You will not play or show (I dont know what that means LOL),or you will wear skirt.

You will wear thick stockings if is winter.

 

That easy.

 

If you think for 1 second that "thick stockings" are going to save you from frostbite in the midwest, you need to get your wits about you.

 

Let me put that into perspective for you.

 

In terms of Fahrenheit, water freezes at around 32 degrees; that's almost 50 degrees below the freezing point of water.  You know, that thing that makes up to 60% of your body?

Edited November 20, 2018 by budding_clover

[SmartAssLittle]

you just need to keep your body temperature... jumping...runing...dancing... lol

[Mario]

Well, i saw many "inflexibles" rules in bdsm world, why not in ddlg? The point is your partner must accept it first, and second in a safe way. If you need to get such restrictions, you also need to be able to change your way of life to succeed. So, what is a problem for some girls won't be for others.

 

I love no panty or skirt & dress only rules, but, like many daddy, it can't be nice if my girl get a cold or feel bad with. So, i choose to do this only if will doesn't make any problems. It's exactly the same if i'm pleased to see her naked - i don't like exhibitionnism, so, it's inside, and for me only when she's confortable with

[Little_Ghoul]

I think any rule is doable if both the CG and the little are in total agreement on it beforehand. It's all about changing your lifestyle to fit the rules you want in place. If a rule really matters that much to you and your partner then you'll both need to find ways of making them work.  

[Guest CalmingEffect67]

I approached my Little once with the suggestion (mind you , I did say suggestion.  I never made demands of her).  She wasn't adverse to the idea as long as she had the option over what to wear, when and where.  

[Guest HoosierDD]

I have seen this rule a lot online, but I wasn't sure if people did it in person. In the past I imagine women would often only wear dresses, but I wonder how practical it actually is. 

[Guest Fancysir]

In general I don't like hard rules like this. I simply let her know what pleases me. She wants to please me and wear dresses and skirts often that's great. Make things like this a suggestion not a requirement. Would you want to have to wear a suit and tie every day? I for one would miss seeing her in her onesie. LOL

[Guest MentorMike]

Even though I adore skirts and dresses I extended the rule to making an effort to dress nicely every day. That often resulted in skirts but there was some room for flexibility when needed.

For me every rule has to have a purpose and in our relationship the dressing part was about having a routine and coming out of the sleeping Pyjama mode into an this will be a healthy and productive day for me mode.