dating struggles

[Guest Wytchwolfy]

Hey so im currently looking for a little/partner.....does anyone find that the emotions involved are so much more acute than a vanilla relationship?

[SmartAssLittle]

I dont understand question.

 

Emotion involves in what?

[Guest Avi]

love is love. DD/LG isnt better or worse than vanilla. it isnt stronger or weaker. its just part of how you express your love. its what you make of it. it's a really subjective matter, so it could be acute for you, but might very well not be for others or the opposite.

[LittleGirlEmilia]

Don't worry, I totally understand what you mean.

 

I feel like the bond, trust and dependency is much more intense in a DDlg relationship than a vanilla one. I feel like you are opening yourself up and trusting someone more, that's because a DDlg relationship takes a lot of communication. Constant communication about how you're honestly feeling about things and trusting in your partner to not judge your emotions is a big part of a DDlg relationship, to me anyways. 

 

Also, I think this is why when a DDlg relationship ends, it hurts far more than a normal vanilla one.

 

This is my experiences though, I'm not sure about everyone else. 

[Guest Wytchwolfy]

Fantastic Barbie, you managed to put in words what i couldnt

[LittleGirlEmilia]

Fantastic Barbie, you managed to put in words what i couldnt

Ahh, thank you! I wanted to say a lot more on it but I'm so sleepy lol. I'm glad I made sense.

[Guest Wytchwolfy]

Ahh, thank you! I wanted to say a lot more on it but I'm so sleepy lol. I'm glad I made sense.

yes you made sense, better than me anyway  

[Lion4Kitten]

It takes so much out of a Little to build up courage to feel safe being Little. I without a doubt no it’s not the same as a vanilla relationship. Heart is heartache though but the amount of care a Daddy needs to implement for His Little requires much more than an average relationship. When the bond is broken you risk crushing that Little inside.

[Guest NvM]

As everyone else here, this is my opinion. I don't expect everyone to share. That being said

 

I don't think any two relationships should be compared. They are different on so many levels that comparing them would be pointless. I can't say if the self relationship hurts more than the other because that has so many factors involved. On the surface level, it might seem that the self hurts more than vanilla but it's not true. If you have very strong emotional connection to someone vanilla, more than you ever had in a self relationship, I'm sure that the failure of the vanilla relationship would hurt a lot more. In the end, I guess you and you alone know how much someone could hurt. Vanilla or otherwise