Help with my Papi? I'm so afraid of something went wrong

[Alexdander]

Hello everybody!

Edited January 10, 2019 by Alexdander

[LittleGirlEmilia]

Hello!

 

Sorry I'm a bit confused. Your daddy has you, your papi and your mami, yes? And your Papi is also in a relationship with you?

[Alexdander]

Hello!

 

Sorry I'm a bit confused. Your daddy has you, your papi and your mami, yes? And your Papi is also in a relationship with you?

 

Edited January 10, 2019 by Alexdander

[Maarloeve]

so this is a throuple of three switches with ddlg running both ways on all three legs of the triangle?

[NPC]

Lmao, what the fuck dog

[AngelLove]

I’m so sorry, I’m struggling to understand, so it’s a poly relationship and you’re all switches? I’m sorry but I honestly don’t see how this would work, with two of you maybe, but three people? It just seems like an impossible task to have a good stable relationship for all parties involved

[xBabydollx]

I had to read this a few times Lol. Ok, so u are in a Poly relationship. There is 3 of u. All of u are switches. All of u are also littles. u are basically the head of the family as the main Daddy/caregiver. Mami is great with ur little side, but with Papi it is not as great. Correct me if Im wrong.

 

If Papi would prefer u warning him when u go into littlespace, then I think u should do it. It will give him time to prep and go into 'Daddy mode' or it will give him time to let u know that he isn't in the mood to be in Daddy mode. To avoid worrying about overwhelming him with ur new role, make sure u both plan to practice honest and open communication. Do short scenes of u being in 'little mode' to start and ask how he felt about it. Ask what he liked about it, or what he would like to be changed for next time. Be honest about ur needs and desires too. Since he is a switch, it is possible that he may be more of a little than a Daddy. So he might not be able to be in 'Daddy mode' as often as u like. This is something u both should talk about, and if he can't handle or desire to be in Daddy mode often, he may appreciate some reassurance that it is ok (if it actually is ok for u). Im basically saying to balance ur expections of him and to take it slow. u will have to trust him to be honest with u about how he feels about all of this. If verbal communication is hard, try writing each other letters or posting to a private blog as an outlet that he can read.