Kitten Fluff Posted October 15, 2018 Report Posted October 15, 2018 My daddy and I have been together for almost 3 years now. Around our year he got me a collar. He wasn't into ddlg back then but I asked him to collar me, make me as his. He did but I think he didn't see it as the way he does now. It is ok do to it again? Ask him to collar me but do it correctly now that he knows what to do? I was thinking of doing words as he did it like "I now make you my little and this collar shows that." Or something like that..
Guest Arc Posted October 15, 2018 Report Posted October 15, 2018 Maybe I'm more of a traditionalist because I'd never asked to be collared, much less plan the ceremony lol. It's something that's earned rather than expected and asked for in my mind. Anyway.... I'm not sure why what he thought of it at first matters because relationships evolve and change and that doesn't make the initial collaring any different. But if it would make you happy there's no harm in discussing it with him. 3
SmartAssLittle Posted October 15, 2018 Report Posted October 15, 2018 What does it mean to you to be collared from someone wich that act does not mean anything? It is like you force ateist to be married in the church.
Kitten Fluff Posted October 15, 2018 Author Report Posted October 15, 2018 (edited) What does it mean to you to be collared from someone wich that act does not mean anything? It is like you force ateist to be married in the church. Wait what? It did mean a lot to me.. it did to him too he just didn't know what he was doing at the time.. I'm so confused by your reply.. Edited October 15, 2018 by Kitten Fluff
prince eefy Posted October 15, 2018 Report Posted October 15, 2018 If you feel being recollared again would benefit you, then go for it. It doesn’t hurt anyone by doing it again. 3
Strict Posted October 15, 2018 Report Posted October 15, 2018 little kitten People get married again ... remarryingand it to confirm that they love each other even more now than they did beforeCollaring meaning something for you and then with your mutual love Go for it!! 3
baby_k Posted October 15, 2018 Report Posted October 15, 2018 People redo (wedding) vows, get engagament ring and then wedding ring... I see no issue "doing it again". But I maybe would not say it is doing something again, more like that you have now reached different state/level in your relationship, and you want to embrace that. So, it is _new_ thing as now it is different than in past as he has different meaning to it too. I'm huge fan of ceremonies and considering what each ceremony means to these specific people. So, maybe think about that, what it really means to you, how you have progressed as couple from the "previous time", what are you wishes for future, what you want to show with that ceremony to each other (and maybe others even)... As I bet it is different than before. So, it is good idea to celebrate this new phase you have in your life. 3
Guest Vintage Daddy Posted October 16, 2018 Report Posted October 16, 2018 Real simple.... If it makes you both happy, Do It ! 1
LittleGirlEmilia Posted October 23, 2018 Report Posted October 23, 2018 Do it if you want. I see nothing wrong with re-collaring.
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