Spade Posted September 28, 2018 Report Posted September 28, 2018 I'm New To This I was reading up on mentors to other CGs. Is that really a thing? How well does it work? I know I have what it takes to be the nurturing, caring, loving Mommy but, what if I don't know how to discipline correctly? My CgL relationship (whenever I find one) won't be necessarily romantic in the beginning, but how would I communicate that? As a switch, I've spent my fare share of time in Little Space, so I get it. But my DD always served more of a purpose than being my SO. Alternately, my DD and my SO were two different people. It worked for us, but I'm not sure if that is something many people even do *heavy sighs* I'm just feeling a tad overwhelmed. I don't want to ruin this for my potential little one, but there is just so much a mentor could show me. Is there a way of finding one? -Spade <3
Guest Prat Posted September 28, 2018 Report Posted September 28, 2018 Yeah, it's a thing. Think of it as a friend of yours who's also a more experienced Dom and can offer you advice when you need it, but you don't have to follow it. "Alternately, my DD and my SO were two different people. It worked for us, but I'm not sure if that is something many people even do *heavy sighs*" Very common. "My CgL relationship (whenever I find one) won't be necessarily romantic in the beginning, but how would I communicate that?" Verbally ^^, you'll figure it out.
Guest QueenJellybean Posted September 28, 2018 Report Posted September 28, 2018 hi there! there's actually a topic just like this that was recently posted. i'll reiterate what i wrote there: it's an awesome idea to find a mentor, regardless of if you are a CG or a little. there are definitely ones out there that exist for both -- i've mentored both! to answer a couple of your basic questions: - you don't have to include discipline in your dynamic if you don't want to. if you do want to include it, just communicate with your partner to find consequences that work for them. you don't need to know before you even start, promise. & just communicate! i've been in connections that aren't romantic at first, just be upfront about your desire for a platonic connection, at least in the beginning. are you demiromantic? does it take some time to develop that connection? just tell your potential partner that upfront.
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