Non sexual little problems

[Guest ~ Sleepy ~]

I lost another daddy due to me not being sexual. It’s upsetting when the daddy I’m with won’t be patient with me and I’m just not sure what I could possibly do. If I’m not comfortable I’m not comfortable and I can’t change that but he didn’t understand that....it’s making me worry that there’s no daddy out there who’s ok with me not being very sexual. Is there something wrong with me?

[Guest Vintage Daddy]

No there is nothing wrong with you.

 

Your perfect daddy is out there.

 

If you lost a daddy strictly due to being nonsexual then he was not interested in you, he was more interested in sex.

[Guest Avera]

There's nothing wrong with you it's just some people expect all littles to be sexual fiends of the night without asking what that person is comfy with. It's more of a fault of them not communicating before you got into the relationship what they where expecting/want.

[BabyBeans]

I'm the same and have been with people who did the same. I don't think there's anything wrong with you, and there's somebody out there perfect for you. It just takes time, and that's okay. 

[Guest Arc]

Nothing is wrong with you. Everyone is different and wants different things. That's completely normal ^^ 

 

Maybe try take things slower with potential daddies. I'm not saying it's your fault at all but... do they realise you're non sexual? I only know what you've said here but my thoughts are that either things are going too fast and they don't understand you're non sexual, or they're jerks and think they can change you lol. Again I'm not saying it's your fault but I would make a big point at the beginning about being non sexual and that that won't change because it's who you are. 

 

Anyway you'll find a daddy when the right one comes along. Don't give up ^^

[Guest Arc]

If you lost a daddy strictly due to being nonsexual then he was not interested in you, he was more interested in sex.

 

I have to somewhat disagree. I'm a very sexual little and sex is an important part of a relationship for me. If I was with a daddy who wasn't sexual I couldn't be satisfied in that relationship. Not because I'm only interested in sex and not in the guy at all... but because it's a part of me and it's important to me. 

 

Obviously there are many out there who are only interested in sex, but it's not always the case.

[Guest Vintage Daddy]

I have to somewhat disagree. I'm a very sexual little and sex is an important part of a relationship for me. If I was with a daddy who wasn't sexual I couldn't be satisfied in that relationship. Not because I'm only interested in sex and not in the guy at all... but because it's a part of me and it's important to me. 

 

Obviously there are many out there who are only interested in sex, but it's not always the case.

I agree with you. The sexual aspect of a relationship can be very important to many.

 

Which is why without further info from the OP (TMI ?) I used "strictly" as the operative word in that part of my comment.

[Little Illy]

OP - there are so many asexual Daddies and men who understand. As long as you are completely upfront and honest with any potential partner.

 

When I got with Daddy I had to explain to him that I have a HIGH sex drive (nympho), however when it came to initiated a sexual relationship, I was almost completely void of sexual inclinations. I get to shy, uncomfy (insecurities on my end) and nervous. After a 5 month LDR, we met for the first time and shared a hotel room (mutual new ground). After so much build up and tension and need, the first thing I said when the dust had settled and we were fed and sitting on the bed was "I don't know if I can do this right now." Because it was all so much.

 

Daddy ended up watching movies with me and fooling around (G rated) until I was comfy enough to nod to let him initiate. 

 

Even now, because of my mental instability due to stress, sickness, etc, Daddy stands back and lets me give the green light. And his sex drive is higher than mine.

 

My point is - you need to focus on a compatible partner all around, someone who understands and is receptive of the things you like/need and vice versa. If you find a compatible partner, an understanding partner, and you are completely upfront and honest with your personal situation, then you can find someone who is patient.

 

I hope you find the Daddy you deserve. Just keep true to yourself, be upfront with them and know you will find him.

Edited September 23, 2018 by Little Illy