being a little with a child

[DaddysBabyGirl1]

i recently had a child. i feel like when i start talking to a potential daddy that they just run after i say child. the father of my baby has nothing to do with her and is not an issue in my life. i just feel like i won’t be able to find a daddy now that i have a child. anyone else deal with this? or daddy’s have any opinions?

[Guest Babywantsherdaddy]

I’m a little with a child my daddy is very accepting of my daughter he treats her like his own but did have past daddies that didn’t like the fact I had a kid or choice to act like she didn’t exist

[Guest Aetherr]

any daddy worth talking to will accept you for who you are and what you have been through.

[xBabydollx]

I don't think it's a DD/lg thing, but rather a society thing. Most men in the world do not want to date/enter a relationship with a women who has kids. A lot of women also don't want to be with men who already have kids, but I think the scale is much heaver on men who aren't ok with it. The dating pool is generally slimmer for parents imo (where a serious relationship is the goal). However, there is still a ton of ppl in the world who wont see it as a problem, will be ok with it, and will even treat ur kid as their own. It's not exactly an easy find, especially with the additional role of 'Daddy' on the requirements, but it's far from impossible to obtain.

[StefanC71_UK]

I'm a daddy with 2 kids. Albeit older at 10 and 15, I understand what you're saying, I worry that I won't find a little accepting of them.

 

That being said, I always make sure that I bring it up early in conversation, and no-one that I've spoken to has run away based on that.

 

Perhaps men are different from women in what they will accept, I don't know, but I can tell you from my own experience, it hasn't been an issue, though I still worry about it when I speak to someone new.

 

I actually don't think it's a man/woman thing, I believe it's purely an individual choice thing.

 

It doesn't mean someone is in the wrong for not accepting our kids, they just want something different to us.

 

But you will find someone who wants you, and will be accepting of them, and if it's what you want, be involved in their life too.

[PrincessBean]

I think finding a daddy that has kids is a bonus, especially if their relationship is good because it gives the foundation of a ddlg relationship. If they're a good father kn real life then it should come natural for them to be a good daddy. Me personally though, as far as adult relationships are concerned, I would prefer to be with someone who doesnt have kids. But that's just a me thing because I dont have kids and when the time comes to have my own, I want to share that first child experience with my partner. But as far as finding a daddy, ideally i think of an older man who has had children already. My mind is all over the place when it comes to children and relation ships, regardless the title. I'm sure this comment doesnt help in this matter, but I just wanted to state my opinion.

[Guest DaddyWind]

My dear Lady,this matter with children is not something specifically for men but rather for humans. No one can really judge someone as right or wrong if they decide to date someone with children or not. The ones who don't date people who already have children don't do this because they run from responsibility or because they are not accepting but rather because they are not ready. When you date someone with a child, you must be ready to have the parent responsibility as well...meaning you have to be ready for everything this matter implies with seriousness and dedication. If someone simply accepts dating a person but does not accept the responsibility for the child as well, they would be nothing more but heartless.The fact that they refuse to deal with this is not exactly something lacking feelings but rather... a feeling of not being ready for it and avoiding it exactly to not hurt anyone because of their lack of maturity for such an important responsibility. Well all know from our childhood that a child must be treated with all the care and attention possible to develop correctly. Many people simply want to reach the right moment in their life to be ready for a child. If one treats love seriously, they should know how to recognize their weakness on a matter and wait for the right moment to deal with it. This is my personal opinion since one day I wish to be a great parent but I am not ashamed to recognize that I am by no means ready for something like this in any close future.