Engaged relationships VS Not engaged.

[Kitten Fluff]

I'm engaged to my daddy (Have been for a year now) And I began to notice something. 

 

With DDLG and us, its more serious and means more to us because we are engaged, we know we want to be together forever. When I was with my previous daddy (Never got engaged just relationship) It wasn't..As close as the one I have now. 

 

Idk if i'm making sense, but basically what i'm trying to ask is, Engaged littles (Or daddies) Did your DDLG relationship change from Not engaged to engaged, or stayed the same?

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

I don’t think it exactly has any relation to being in DDLG. It’s just a step up in the relationship in general.

 

I could say my being married to my Daddy for 5ish years makes our relationship more than if we weren’t, but I personally feel that would unintentionally undermine those who feel an intensity to their relationship without the intention of getting married.

 

I think being engaged, getting married- that kinda normal relationship stuff adds the feeling of commitment “on paper”. Because you feel cozy knowing they intend to be with you and only you.

[Guest Arc]

I'd say it has more to do with the fact that you're close enough and love each other enough to be engaged, than the actual being engaged itself. Your  relationship now is different than ones before because this one went far enough to do that. I doubt there's a relationship with ddlg and your relationship status - it's just things are different in this relationship ._. 

[Little Illy]

What you are experiencing is actually being with someone who wants to be with you forever. 

 

I don't know your back story, but generally becoming engaged with someone means... well... you're closer to them than anyone else. IF you believe in marriage than your husband or wife should be your one and only. Inherently, that is what marriage is - find the one human you wont kill over the next 40-50 years and BAM! Keep him/her!

 

Seriously tho, As everyone above stated, its not a DDlg thing, it is a union thing. Those who believe in marriage should naturally be closer than any other relationships. which is what you are experiencing. And those who don't believe in marriage DO have just as deep and connected relationships. A lot of CG/L-ers refer to the relationship you are in as the "Forever Daddy" and you being the "Forever Little" It means you two are legit and aren't another short term commitment. It means, that yes, you two are vastly closer than the others.

 

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Edited September 12, 2018 by Little Illy

[Guest QueenJellybean]

i want to second everything said above & offer another perspective! 

 

i've been engaged to The Giant, & then we ended the engagement, but stayed together.

now, we're considering becoming engaged again! haha! 

 

our relationship changed a lot in status & title, but it never changed in intensity or commitment. 

i think it has a lot less to do with the dynamic, or even the title, & a lot more to do with your personal commitment to each other & your relationship. 

even though marriage (the institution, not the idea) might not have been in the cards for us at the time, the fact that we wanted to make that commitment to each other means that it has changed our relationship. 

it was something that was there before the engagement, it was there during it, & it is still there after it.

 

enjoy it. it means that someone wants to be with you for the long haul & sees you in their future forever. 

what a feeling, am i right? 

[Guest Longlegs]

It has as much meaning as you're willing to give it.
I think it's a lot more about the shared experiences that led to the engagement than the engagement itself, because putting a ring on somebody doesn't really change anything by itself.