Birthday presents for daddy

[Guest alexander2265]

Hi Everyone ,

My name is alex  and Im a little who is in a long distance relationship with my daddy.  Its my daddys 42nd birthday tomorrow and I want to make it special but with a long distance relationship its really hard. Any ideas ?? 

[Guest QueenJellybean]

here are some great ideas already discussed for gift giving! 

make sure you check if your question has already been answered! there's a treasure trove here!

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/35088-birthday-presents-for-domscgsdaddysmommys/?hl=gifts&do=findComment&comment=179894

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/34620-need-suggestions-on-ddlgbdsm-gifts/?hl=gifts

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/33504-nice-gestureslittle-things-to-do-for-your-daddy-ldr-edition/?hl=gifts&do=findComment&comment=171610

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/31617-what-to-get-for-my-daddy%E2%80%99s-birthday/?hl=gifts&do=findComment&comment=161384

[Guest Arc]

One day is pretty last minute to start planning things. ><

 

You could have some bakery treats delivered to him, or some other kind of gift basket you can order online for next day delivery. You could buy him a movie ticket online or buy a month's subscription to a website he likes, or maybe a voucher for a game he plays. You could make him a list of vouchers for different things and just send the online pictures/document. You could use rabbit and watch his favourite movie with him. And.... I'm out of ideas. Long distance and last minute makes this a tough one. Without knowing what he likes or if you have time to post something that's all I can suggest ><

[Little Illy]

There is nothing major you can do last minute and over an LDR. However, you can be creative (I have not read the replies, so I apologize if I am repeating things here).

 

Daddy's birthday was on the 29th and I was seriously ill, so all of my plans went out the window. No gathering, no favorite meal cooked, no homemade cake, no little session, not even a colored picture. And so I felt horrible. This is Daddy's first birthday with me here and I felt like I ruined it. 

 

So... I looked at the things I CAN do that would make HIM happy and not satisfy my need to spoil him or make it magical. I came up with the idea to watch a few movies that are Daddy's favorite that I have refused to watch in the past; Star Trek 1-3 (the new ones), and a few other of his favorites. And Daddy LOVED THIS so much - especially because I made the effort to put my phone and any other distractions aside. I actively commented and pointed things out I knew he would love, and he did. Watching 3 movies so far is nothing, but it meant the world to him.

 

So... what CAN you do now? Color him a photo? Make him something? Show it all over skype? How about write him a poem, a letter or a story about the two of you and how two you feel. I did that for Daddy when we started our relationship, he still has it. We can't tell you what to do because we don't know your Daddy. What does he like? How can you tap into that? Is he a gamer? Is there a way to game with him, even if it isn't your favorite? I hate Star Trek but I enjoyed watching it with Daddy because HE was enjoying it. 

 

In an LDR and a serious relationship, meaningful gifts are selfless. And creative. Think of these things. A Christmas gift I got Daddy was ordered 2 custom labeled Christmas tree ornaments with "Illy" and "Daddy" on them. One of turtles because they are his favorite and 1 of snowmen with a puppy, because I am a husky pup. Daddy didn't get this Christmas gift until MARCH! But it was okay! Because I showed it to him and he loved it.

 

And stepping out of my little shoes for a moment - as a Domme, if my little came to me with something she went out of her way to do, just to make me happy, then no matter what it was I would be grateful and love her for it. Because she made the effort. So just dont panic but think of little things you can do that would make him happy.

 

And at the end of the day, surprising your man with flowers is a FANTASTIC surprise. Guys never expect to get them, and if you add a cute little card, he will probably even blush.

Edited September 1, 2018 by Little Illy

[Guest alexander2265]

One day is pretty last minute to start planning things. ><

 

You could have some bakery treats delivered to him, or some other kind of gift basket you can order online for next day delivery. You could buy him a movie ticket online or buy a month's subscription to a website he likes, or maybe a voucher for a game he plays. You could make him a list of vouchers for different things and just send the online pictures/document. You could use rabbit and watch his favourite movie with him. And.... I'm out of ideas. Long distance and last minute makes this a tough one. Without knowing what he likes or if you have time to post something that's all I can suggest ><

 

 

There is nothing major you can do last minute and over an LDR. However, you can be creative (I have not read the replies, so I apologize if I am repeating things here).

 

Daddy's birthday was on the 29th and I was seriously ill, so all of my plans went out the window. No gathering, no favorite meal cooked, no homemade cake, no little session, not even a colored picture. And so I felt horrible. This is Daddy's first birthday with me here and I felt like I ruined it. 

 

So... I looked at the things I CAN do that would make HIM happy and not satisfy my need to spoil him or make it magical. I came up with the idea to watch a few movies that are Daddy's favorite that I have refused to watch in the past; Star Trek 1-3 (the new ones), and a few other of his favorites. And Daddy LOVED THIS so much - especially because I made the effort to put my phone and any other distractions aside. I actively commented and pointed things out I knew he would love, and he did. Watching 3 movies so far is nothing, but it meant the world to him.

 

So... what CAN you do now? Color him a photo? Make him something? Show it all over skype? How about write him a poem, a letter or a story about the two of you and how two you feel. I did that for Daddy when we started our relationship, he still has it. We can't tell you what to do because we don't know your Daddy. What does he like? How can you tap into that? Is he a gamer? Is there a way to game with him, even if it isn't your favorite? I hate Star Trek but I enjoyed watching it with Daddy because HE was enjoying it. 

 

In an LDR and a serious relationship, meaningful gifts are selfless. And creative. Think of these things. A Christmas gift I got Daddy was ordered 2 custom labeled Christmas tree ornaments with "Illy" and "Daddy" on them. One of turtles because they are his favorite and 1 of snowmen with a puppy, because I am a husky pup. Daddy didn't get this Christmas gift until MARCH! But it was okay! Because I showed it to him and he loved it.

 

And stepping out of my little shoes for a moment - as a Domme, if my little came to me with something she went out of her way to do, just to make me happy, then no matter what it was I would be grateful and love her for it. Because she made the effort. So just dont panic but think of little things you can do that would make him happy.

 

And at the end of the day, surprising your man with flowers is a FANTASTIC surprise. Guys never expect to get them, and if you add a cute little card, he will probably even blush.

Thank you both so so much . I know its really last minute. This is my first year with my daddy and he just told me yesterday that his birthday was tomorrow so immediately I went into little panic mode. I think cards and drawings are perfect.  Its hard to send him things for him to do for he is parenting his son at home and so we have to keep our relationship pretty hidden. Im a musician so ,yesterday I made a song that I can play on ukulele . I hope he appreciate all this and I can make his day as special as possible. 

 

- Ana