Making a new daddy comfy!

[lilbunbunprincess]

Hello! I am a little with a daddy and I have tons of experience with being a little and such but my daddy is quite new. I was wondering if anyone has any advice for me to make him more comfortable in taking a daddy role and welcoming him!  My daddy loves me very much and wouldn't want to hurt me but I am very much a masochist! I want to help him explore DDLG and have fun with me in being a daddy and his little girl. He takes cares of me and does everything a caregiver should but he really isn't in depth. please help!

 

 

[Guest DuckDaddy66]

LDR or in person?

 

Long distance things are harder. I text my little/facebook messenger a lot. Like if we are not super busy working we are always connecting.

Watch a cartoon/movie together.  My little and I watched Finding Dory just recently and text back and forth different scenes. 

 

In person

Have him brush your hair

Watch cartoons together

 

As for the fun kinky stuff. Really talk that out and find out what he likes and start from there!

[Guest AMS23]

They have ready made yes no check lists if you just google it. That will help you see what he’s ok with and what he might be ok with slowly and what he will never be ok with. Same on your end.

 

I agree with starting small if he’s not into things like paddles and floggers ect.

I know for me I love to be made to cry tears. I had an ex that just couldn’t do it right away. We started small and before we knew it he let go and it was awesome. Patience is key I think.

 

Little activities brushing hair, bath time, helping get dressed in jammies... all super small things that for me made a huge difference. Maybe for you they will too? Idk

 

Hope I helped a little at least

[lilbunbunprincess]

LDR or in person?

 

Long distance things are harder. I text my little/facebook messenger a lot. Like if we are not super busy working we are always connecting.

Watch a cartoon/movie together.  My little and I watched Finding Dory just recently and text back and forth different scenes. 

 

In person

Have him brush your hair

Watch cartoons together

 

As for the fun kinky stuff. Really talk that out and find out what he likes and start from there!

 

both LDR and in person. We live a couple of minutes away from each other but we always make time to see each other

[MadelynVictoria]

I'd recommend taking things slowly, and introducing new things one at a time. I also think you two sitting down and discussing what you like, what you don't like, what you want to explore, what you want from your daddy, what your daddy would like from you, etc. so that you both have an idea of what you'd want to do

[Guest Aetherr]

just take it slow, i'm new to this whole thing and i can tell you its confusing overwhelming and sometimes a headache, everytime i come online looking to connect with people in this community i feel like i am constantly researching and finding new things its like school for kinklords

[PrinzeCharming]

Communicate, surf the web, and network with other people in the ddlg community. You seem to be doing all three. Good job. Has your daddy signed up on here? It would be great to allow him to explore the threads, and take a lesson or two every day. The sooner he's comfortable, the sooner you'll start to see him shine. As Aetherr said, it can get extremely overwhelming. I've had a few moments when my brain was on fire. Daily homework assignments, lots of communication, and quality time together can set everyone on the same page. Nobody likes surprises, especially if they're just stepping into the pool. Use Skype or FaceTime to see each other. Use technology to connect, grow, and develop. When you have the time to see each other in person, make it more qualitative than quantitative. Go through ddlg images on Google, and see what sparks his interest the most. Hold his hand, and don't let go.