Trans and polyamorous littles, are we valid?

[princekatsudon]

Hi! I'm Prince Katsudon, and I'm an FTM trans poly little...

I have a question, are we valid? like, it's ok for us to be littles and to try and find our Daddies and Mommies?

I ask this because everywhere I look it's cis Daddies looking for cis little girls in monogamous relationships.

I have a Care Taker, she is a cis woman. I'm also engaged to her, and we're happy but I've been yearning for a Daddy too... Yet it's so hard to look around and see that there's nobody seeking for a trans little... It makes me sad, or maybe I'm not looking correctly?

I'm just scared that we're not valid and that I'll never be able to be completely happy with my CGl family...

So, are we valid? Is it ok to be trans, poly and a little? Or should I simply forget about it?

[Guest QueenJellybean]

hi there! resident polyamorous advocate here! 

 

you are absolutely valid & welcome here! 

we have many polyamorous-identifying folks here, & many transgendered individuals as well! 

you are absolutely not alone & in great company! 

 

i suggest checking out my polyamory resource in the resource section for more information on polyamory, or just shoot me a message directly! 

we also have a section in our personals questionnaire where you can state if you are looking for monogamy or polyamory -- we're very inclusive here & i'm sure you'll find with just a bit of hunting that there are many folks just like you here as well. 

 

good luck!

[Guest Arc]

Of course you're valid! There is absolutely no reason you wouldn't be. Just because the majority of people you see are cis and monogamous doesn't mean that's all there is. There's all types here and it's great because it would be so dull if everyone was the same. ^^

[TheDaddyest]

You are valid! anyone with a heartbeat is valid! But it's just going  to be hard for you to find what you are looking for, since it's such a small nitch. Just because you are having a hard time looking doesn't mean no one wants you! it just means the person you are looking for is more scarce! Don't fret and have patience! 

[Guest Aetherr]

Be whoever the heck you wanna be, i will say that sounds like an extremerly specific criteria (not your fault of course) but you know the more filter you ad the less results you get back

 

there's also the case to be made that there is someone out there for everyone and whoever they are they will be here soon there's no need to rush things

Edited August 28, 2018 by Aetherr

[princekatsudon]

Thank you everyone for your input!!! I was feeling really really low, but you have cheered me up a fair bit!!  

It's nice to know it's ok to be myself and that inclusiveness is ok as well. <3 Thank you everyone!!

[xBabydollx]

There is no sexuality or gender restrictions in BDSM or cg/l, so yes u are valid. There is a ton of both poly and trans ppl in the community overall. A lot of ppl, just like u, are looking for a mix of things too. u have nothing to worry about, besides acquiring some patience (and maybe expanding ur horizons on where u find ppl)