Daddy punishments?

[disney little]

So I actually never thought of this before but thought it was a good idea. So like when you daddy does something you don't like or you said stop and actually mean it (not just you being a brat) then you get to pick a punishment for him. Like if he makes you burn something while your cooking, then he gets a punishment. What are some punishments Y'all do because I'm honestly curious?

 

 

 

Edit: I don't believe in this any more. i was in a weird place when i posted this. 

Edited August 18, 2019 by disney little

[LittleCelticLass]

In my world, Daddy doesn't get punishment. If he did something wrong, I would expect an apology, and maybe extra cuddles. Nothing more.

[Guest Arc]

That's not something I'd be interested in tbh. If he did something I genuinely didn't like I would want to sit down and talk it through like adults so he avoiding whatever it was again. I'm very into the power exchange of relationships and if I was taking that power on my side it wouldn't feel right. 

 

If I burned something while cooking normally I would doubt that would be a punishable offence. For myself or for them. It's not a big deal. If it was his fault for grabbing me and holding me or something then I would think an apology would be enough. Maybe offering to help start again or to buy takeout instead would be nice too. But I don't see it as something to punish over ._. 

[Guest AMS23]

I have to admit I have punished an ex daddy before. When I was younger. It’s silly to think about now but I’d sneak and hide things from him like his belt and watch him have to pull his pants up all day or pull little pranks almost. Mischievous little deals. When he finally figured out what was going on he’d ask me about it or confront me and I’d say well.. I was punishing you in my own way. Also getting a small laugh in because you did...and tell him what he did that upset me and he’d apologize. Back then this particular Ex hated apologizing to me for anything.

[WhysperKit]

I'm not interested in punishing Daddy. He's my Dominant, my Owner, my Master. He does as he likes. He doesn't do something to intentionally upset me or cause things to go awry. He knows me and knows when I'm being pushed to my limits, so he stops before I usually even have to say anything. 

 

But if that's what you're into, cool I suppose that would work if you both agree on the rules/punishments like with any dynamic.

[Little Illy]

If you have a desire to punish your Daddy, you may be more of a switch - just enough to get a small taste of delivering punishments. 

 

Or you can think it is a cute idea.

 

I am a brat, an alpha, a Domme but I am Daddy's little and puppy. When he does something that would warrant a punishment (according to this thread) I typically do something extra bratty with a slice of petty. "Oh, I'm sorry Daddy. You wanted me to do this? I guess you shouldve been nice and used your manners." I typically get the Daddy Look but he doesn't neglect that I act like that for a reason. So he basically tells me to watch it, but then goes "oh really? When didn't Daddy use his manners? Hm?" And if it is legit, that is my opening to talk to him about why I feel that way.

 

Its a fun and non-passive aggressive way to stay in the dynamic, rooted in our respective identities (Dom vs Little) but at the same times allows me to air any concerns. And that is just what works best for Daddy and me.

[Guest AMS23]

I agree with the idea maybe you are a switch. If you have the desire to full on punish your Daddy like a Dom would typically punish a sub. Is he into being punished?

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

Don’t we punish them enough?

[disney little]

I think there is a confusion. I'm in no way wanting to punish my daddy like a daddy would punish a little. I don't want to give my daddy time out or what spankings or what not. BUT I do think that if a daddy messes up, by hurting his little too much, oversteps boundaries, or even degrading himself (like littles, daddies do that too) they need a punishment of some sort. For degrading themselves, that one is easy as just "every one time you degrade, you have to say 3+ good things." But The demanding of extra cuddles is a good idea! Maybe has to listen to a song/ movie the little plays way too often... I don't know

[Little Illy]

I think there is a confusion. I'm in no way wanting to punish my daddy like a daddy would punish a little. I don't want to give my daddy time out or what spankings or what not. BUT I do think that if a daddy messes up, by hurting his little too much, oversteps boundaries, or even degrading himself (like littles, daddies do that too) they need a punishment of some sort. For degrading themselves, that one is easy as just "every one time you degrade, you have to say 3+ good things." But The demanding of extra cuddles is a good idea! Maybe has to listen to a song/ movie the little plays way too often... I don't know

I politely disagree on this except the self-image issue.

 

If your Daddy hurts you too much (accidentally and even just a wee bit) or oversteps his boundaries (regardless how small), you need to get out of the dynamic and talk to him. You previously mentioned if he accidentily messed you up cooking, but then when you needed to clear things up, you bring up actual issues. I could be making assumptions, but I’m advising on the latter.

 

At the end of the day this dynamic sets certain expectations, like a Daddy punishing a little when she ‘misbehaves.’ But it does not negate the fact you both are independent adults. If your Daddy is doing something he shouldn’t, step out of the dynamic and just tell him. That’s it. Just like if you were to overstep a line, let’s say stop calling him Daddy and following his rules, then he should pull out of the dynamic and see what is going on.

 

It doesn’t sound like you want to punish for punishment sake, it sounds like you have experience in not knowing how to handle a partner who oversteps.

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

Ahh yes. There’s nothing that sets my Daddy straight like a vigorous motivational booster.

I also give him treats when he’s a good boii. But so help me, if I have to tell him he’s amazing one more time...

 

In all seriousness, if my Daddy gets too handsy the dealio is that I get to bite him on the thigh- which he hates more than anything, except maybe my fist up his a$$ to play him like a puppet.

 

Here’s some ideas for Daddy punishments, some are MVP moves but some are good starters.

- set the time on all his devices back 30mins.

- jam your Taylor Swift CD in the car’s CD player so that’s all he can listen to on his way to work etc. (old car required)

- shave one of his eyebrows off. (Save for later)

- burn his dins ‘just enough’ that it’s not terrible, but still unenjoyable.

- start using vinegar and fish sauce in lieu of laundry detergent.

- glue the aforementioned eyebrow hairs to your upper lip, kiss him in his sleep, use a deep man voice.

- hide one sock out of each pair in different places all over the house.

- watch Lalaloopsy, True and the Rainbow Kingdom, Trash reality tv etc on his Netflix account- ‘Like’ them all.

- get on his game console, delete one game save per week starting with games he rarely plays, til he notices.

- use salt in his coffee instead of sugar, use dirt instead of coffee.

[Guest AMS23]

These are such mischievous things! Lol cracking up here. I was married to a physically abusive guy at one time and I know some of these things would have got me beat haha

 

That being said... I loveee these ideas. Way more mischievous than I was on some.

[princessfreckles]

I agree with the responses above. No matter how small of a slight, if you think it warrants a punishment, take a step back from the dynamic and talk to him as a grownup. I know it can be scary, however open communication is key to a healthy dynamic and relationship.

[Guest BatsyTheEyeballQueen]

Ahh yes. There’s nothing that sets my Daddy straight like a vigorous motivational booster.

I also give him treats when he’s a good boii. But so help me, if I have to tell him he’s amazing one more time...

 

In all seriousness, if my Daddy gets too handsy the dealio is that I get to bite him on the thigh- which he hates more than anything, except maybe my fist up his a$$ to play him like a puppet.

 

Here’s some ideas for Daddy punishments, some are MVP moves but some are good starters.

- set the time on all his devices back 30mins.

- jam your Taylor Swift CD in the car’s CD player so that’s all he can listen to on his way to work etc. (old car required)

- shave one of his eyebrows off. (Save for later)

- burn his dins ‘just enough’ that it’s not terrible, but still unenjoyable.

- start using vinegar and fish sauce in lieu of laundry detergent.

- glue the aforementioned eyebrow hairs to your upper lip, kiss him in his sleep, use a deep man voice.

- hide one sock out of each pair in different places all over the house.

- watch Lalaloopsy, True and the Rainbow Kingdom, Trash reality tv etc on his Netflix account- ‘Like’ them all.

- get on his game console, delete one game save per week starting with games he rarely plays, til he notices.

- use salt in his coffee instead of sugar, use dirt instead of coffee.

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