New Little- Where to find a Daddy? Help?

[natalieratalie]

Hi my name is Natalie. I'm kind of new to the whole DDlg community, and I just have a couple questions. First, how do you even go about finding a Daddy Dom? Like where do I even start looking? Are there websites or something that I should be looking into? And how do I know which websites are better than others? 

I have lots of question to be honest...

 

Anyway, if someone could help me out, that would be really cool because it's kind of stressful trying to figure stuff out alone.

 

Natalie xx

[junebug0325]

Hi there! So I just want to start out by saying that everyone is different and everyone will have their own opinion and experiences.

 

With that being said, there are many websites out there that can help you to find and meet potential Daddies. This website can also help you connect with potential Daddies. You can post on the “Personal” page about what you are looking for and requirements that you would like someone to meet.

 

There are many websites that you can join to get to know Daddies/Littles involved in the DDLG Community.

 

Every website is different, and you have to be the judge of which website you like and dislike. There are so many websites out there and you have to be the judge of the different websites you like based on your personal preferences.

 

If you would like to someone that is a little more experienced, you can feel free to add me as a friend and message me with any more questions that you have. Being a newcomer is scary and I understand the nervousness you are going through.

[CaresAlot]

My mantra has been that expectations and communciations make or break a relationship.

 

If you are new to this then first thing you need to do is to figure out what you like, as well as what you need.  Are you a baby, toddler, preteen or teen (ABDL/ Little/Middle)?  You can be any of these depending on how you are feeling.  Some have ranges and some have just a single age.  What kinds of things let you get into Little space - coloring, watching movies, stuffies, etc.?  Do you need rules and punishments?  Are you sexual or non sexual?  Look over lots of the profiles on here and you can get some ideas.  Also look back at prior posts in areas you are curious about.  You will find a lot of information to steer you in the right directions.

 

Once you know who you are and what you looking for in a Daddy then its a good time to get started.  On the personal section are Littles looking for Daddies and Daddies looking for Littles.  Big point to remember is that you are not getting a Daddy, you are getting somebody that wants to be your Daddy.  It is you that gives him that title.  Be very cautionous if somebody comes in and tells you that they are your Daddy.  Most of the getting to know each other discussions and what your expectations should be done as a Big.  Plenty of time when both your expectations match to be DD/lg.  At the start of a relationship, three most important things are communicate, communicate, communicate. 

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

Check out these topics for previous suggestions:

 

Where To Find A Partner
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/2-how-did-you-meet-your-littledaddy/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/462-how-did-you-meet-your-daddy/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/566-where-did-you-meet-your-littles/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/3442-i-cant-find-a-daddy/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/6013-how-to-find-a-daddy/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/8523-how-do-i-find-a-daddy/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/11862-how-to-find-a-daddy/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/12169-i-need-a-daddy/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/12436-how-did-you-meet/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/23661-where-did-you-find-your-ddcg/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/25734-who-met-their-daddybabygirl-organically/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/27885-how-did-you-meet-your-current-so/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/28175-how-did-you-meet-your-daddymommy/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/28580-where-did-you-all-find-your-partner/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/28769-daddys-kitten-ran-away/

[DarlingChellie]

Hi my name is Rochelle. I am kind of new to the Ddlg community and I just have a few questions. Um, well firstly how does one go about looking for a Daddy? Secondly, is there any websites that I can go to or how do I do this?

 

Please if anyone can help me, this is stressful trying to figure everything out.

Rochelle:)

[LunaLilac]

This website is a good start, there's a personals section you can use, but depending on what you want an how active you are here YMWV. You could try other kink focused sites, but from my experience they tend to be funn of scammers, bad actors, and blackmailers. You could try regular dating sites, but you probably won't be advertising specifically what you want so much as you will be looking for a standard relationship and trying to transition to a more kink filled one as time goes on. This site however loses all pretence for that so it would be easier to find someone without having to explain the specifics of what your interests are.

 

As for how, like any other relationship, you put yourself out there and are honest about what you want from a connection. 

 

I'm happy to help with anything else if I'm able to.