Can A Little Date Another Little?

[xxKawaiiDragonxx]

I was wondering since there aren't many mommy doms/caregivers out there as daddy doms/caregivers. I was wondering if a little and another little could date? I am wondering because someone could have a crush on another little that's female or whatever gender they identify as as trans/genderfluid/etc.

[babybumble]

I was wondering this same thing and have thought about it a lot. I mean I’m sure a little could date whoever but I’ve never seen a little looking for little anywhere.

[LittleGirlEmilia]

I'd date another little! It would be like having a best friend that's also your partner. Sleepover parties ftw. ^.^

[DaddysHands]

Yes, just, yes.

[Guest You're adorable.]

Hehe. You are asking if a little CAN date another little. I am in no way making fun of you or anything but I found this amusing.

 

The reason for my amusement is that it seems like you need some kind of permission to date someone that is a little.

 

The fact that someone is a little, does not, in any way obstruct you or them from forming relationship with whoever they see fit. This may sound like an oversimplification, but if you like each other and you are comfortable and happy together then of course you CAN. The caregiver/little is a dynamic, a certian something that fits together I would say, like a puzzle. This does not in any way dictate whether you can be together or not. That's up to you.

 

I would like to write someting more, but this is very simple. If you like each other then date.

[Guest LeftyGuitar]

Of course a little can date another little. Just like a middle could date another middle and so on. Some littles are switches as well. If two people like each other, they can date each other regardless of what role they are.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

absolutely! 

 

i've been in several types of little x little relationships over the years, including: 

a relationship between two littles where they are just that -- two littles dating each other.

think a lot of trips to LUSH for bath stuff & many nights baking cookies & watching disney movies. haha!

i'm currently engaged in this. 

a relationship between two littles where one is an older sibling to the younger sibling. 

this dynamic was a lot of fun because it involved some playful bullying & a lot of comforting & getting into trouble together. 

a relationship between two littles where both littles have a shared caregiver. 
this is a strictly polyamorous relationship (or open relationship), but can be really rewarding & enjoyable. 

 

if you have any other questions about this, let me know! 

but YA (Old Man) said it best; the general rule about dating & "is it a thing" is a resounding YES! 

as long as everyone involving is consenting, go for it!
 

[Guest Aetherr]

I don't see a good reason why not, it's your life do what makes you happy!

[Panda God]

I'm gonna weigh in on the other side of this discussion, and address some concerns you may have. To answer your question simply, I agree with everyone else. A little can date whoever they want to, including another little. However, it can get rough sometimes. Rules might get complicated if you both feel awkward telling the other what to do. Also, if both of you want to be stay-at-home spouses, that might cause tension.

[Guest Mossy]

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Edited September 13, 2018 by Mossy

[XmochiX]

I would definitely date another little/middle.

[Kaiser]

If you find someone who makes you happy, truly happy, disregard labels, intensify happiness.

 

 

It's that easy.

[Guest littlepuppycub]

Definitely!

[xxKawaiiDragonxx]

Thanks, guys that helped out a lot and althought it is up to me to who I would want to date, that helped out a lot. *Hugs to all who wants them*

[Kitten Fluff]

My daddy is more sub than anything. And for me I cant. Dont get me wrong I like taking care of him but I like to be the little! 

 

But I think they can work out! 

[Quinaveer]

Yes of course but personally I wouldn’t

[LittleCloudBee]

[Little kaiya]

Of course two littles CAN date and if that's what they want then they should by all means do what makes them happy.

 

Personally, I wouldn't date a little. I have zero interest in being a caregiver and I'm really not looking for play partners when I'm in little space either. I'm Daddy's little girl and so playtime, colouring, cuddling, playing with stuffies, etc. is something that Daddy and I share only together.

 

That said, each to their own, no permission required.

 

Little kaiya

Edited April 15, 2019 by Little kaiya

[Lollipox]

Dating a fellow little doesn’t automatically mean one of you now has to be a dominant.

I had a crush on one of my BFFs (not anymore) and things were just like normal, both littles.

Some friends and I were discussing how there’s a slim line for some of us between who we want to be, and who we want and are attracted to.

 

There’s no prerequisite for any relationship to include a dominant or role that is deemed more caregiving in your particular relationship. It’s when you connect feelings of protection, caring, nurturing solely with being a CG, dominant or Daddy rather than just natural human emotions that you will hit a snag. Everybody is so eager to claim what aspects of a personality are dom/sub that they overlook the fact that humans often feel all of it just to varying degrees, also depending on the persons involved.

 

You can both be littles equally and find your relationships to work. Good luck fellow Little lovers.

 

I am also very tired and very unwell, therefore word vomiting a bit.

Edited April 14, 2019 by Pox