Making Littlespace YOUR space

[Guest Cara]

I love this thread! As a little with no big, I really like hearing from other people who also enjoy their little space without depending on the presence of a caregiver. (Although I understand it helps a lot, I just really appreciate being able to enjoy little time even when I'm single, or when my ex-CG was too busy to play with me.)

• I second learning a secondary language! Knowing basic words and phrases but not knowing the complicated things makes me feel very smol. Watching children's television in foreign languages is really fun, plus that feeling of not understanding much of the words brings me back to the age when you just flip through books to look at the pictures, even though you don't really know how to read that many words. You know? It also doubles as educating yourself on a second language. I might be biased on this one, because I'm a polyglot, so I'm always down to learn more languages lol.
• I also like to do any activity that involves sorting! Like sorting buttons based on their color, or rearranging my books on my bookshelf and lining them up by size. Not only is it something that makes me feel smol, it also doubles as tidying up/cute-ifying the space~ (Sometimes like to show a stuffie or a doll the button and talk to it, like announcing "this blue!" when there's a blue button, or counting the number of books out loud.)
• I like to play pretend with my stuffies, like pretend doctor, or pretend school.
• One thing that's really fun to do alone is crafting! Seasonal crafts for any upcoming holidays, or for the current season. You can also look up what kind of "National X Day" today is, there are usually some really specific and obscure ones that you can center a craft around! Like National Cookie Day, etc.

Edited December 19, 2021 by Cara

[RavenHollow]

With me little space isn't much because I can't do much in it. But I have a blankie that I sleep with and a cool Stitch cup that I like drinking out of to help me. And of course my Nintendo that I can sometimes lose myself in. Anthor thing is that I go on tiktok and watch one of the three creators that is on. The Vampire Jack Townson (who sings and has a soothing voice), Beetlejus Demon (Who I can call Daddy) are just the two I can fall to sleep to and the thrid I can chill with is Nerdography who plays music or streams games and I can play on my Nintendo with him when he is on. That's what helps me as well as Cartoons and Disney movies.

[Guest BabyBug]

I'm learning how to have my littlespace without a Daddy. I've had to start preparing snacks and drinks before hand and I'm decorating a playroom! I love all tips here!

[Gesiggie]

Being told I am childish through out my life has made me very quiet and I am already very quiet by nature. I have learned to hide my little. For me it's after a bath and I  cuddle with my teddy 🧸 when in bed and sucking my thumb brings out my little. It also helps me calm down when things are overwhelming. I am trying to find more time to bring out my little by doing coloring and watching my favorite Disney movies.

[Little_Max001]

My dad buys me toys still. My mom says I should grow up but I don’t want to. What I do when she says that is I go on my bed and sleep with my stuffy, Bowser. I like to stay in my room sometimes. My dad got me a little rainbow slug which I’ve been using as paci. I bought some yarn which I use as the lanyard thing. I sometimes forget to take it off when I go to use the potty. I also watch Bluey and drink a slush. I was sick yesterday so my mom got me some popsicles. I’m feeling a little bit better now. Tomorrow, I get to go to a Carnival with a little group I’m in. Oh and I don’t have a mommy or daddy or a caregiver yet. 

[Miss sunshine]

I'm so happy I found this because I've been dealing with having a hard time getting in to little space too!

A lot of the stuff you said is really helpful😊 something else that I like to do is using a sippy cup or juice boxes. 

[Babydoll princess]

Hiiii. 

I've known I was a little since I was 15 and my friends were actually the ones who recognized the signs. 

For a long time I also depended on them to help me regress but what I didn't realize was that my best friend at the time was a caregiver. 

She was with me till a few months before I turned 17 when she passed away.

I struggled to find my little space after until my friends were kind enough to start taking over the roles together. 

My friend Mark however was the only one to encourage me to regress on my own. Too take time yo love me in my little space without feeling bad about my former cg. 

Now I want to encourage other littles. 

Take your time because your little space is for you. 

It's where you can feel loved, safe, cute, encouraged and most of all like you. 

 

[ocean]

Love these ideas! I love baby talking to myself it even helps me relax after a stressful day, Also! Warm blankets! I don't know what about them but it makes me want to just sleep tight and warm! I could stay on bed all day I also love going to forest when I am in my hometown, I would climbs or touch or see everything I could find