My dom is new with all of this help

[Littlejoey06]

My dom likes being called alpha and hes isnt strict he hates the thought of having to give me a punishment if u do smething bad can anyone help me here...

[Littlejoey06]

Im nit sure what to do and i need advices..

[Guest SUeB]

Maybe you're simply incompatible.

[Barbiedolly]

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Edited July 18, 2018 by Barbiedolly

[Guest SUeB]

prime example of how people will only help you to a certain extent on this site, and are predominantly unsympathetic to your situation.

OK? So am i wrong? Sure, i could have gone all around the houses, explained how different daddies work differently, how littles aren't all wanting a punishment dynamic. Or how it isn't always an indication of a successful D/s relationship, just because there is a Dom and a sub. Or a successful DD/lg relationship, just because there's a daddy and a little.

The same result remains. Incompatibility. And in that case, no matter how that person feels, there is no fix.

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

OP, I am confused.  I do not know what your question is or specifically what the issue is.

 

That he likes being called alpha?

 

That he isn't strict?

 

That he doesn't give punishments?

 

All of the above?

 

I would love to help but a blanket request for advice is a bit vague.  Wear sunscreen.   That's the best piece of advice I have.

[Guest Looby-Lou]

Im nit sure what to do and i need advices..

 

 

There are lots of people who would be willing to spend time helping you (including SueB I'm sure) if you would only tell us what your problem actually IS.

If you don't want to, or aren't able to describe it, I suggest you do a search on the forum as you will probably find some existing threads with helpful information.

Edited July 18, 2018 by Looby-Lou

[Guest little_ballerina]

Whatever is concerning you needs to be discussed with him. If you've had that discussion already then I'm guessing you either think what he's doing is not acceptable or it's not what you want.

 

There is no 'one way' to have a CG/little relationship. My Daddy & I are not into punishments either (I'd have to do something really bad to deserve a spanking and I'm no brat so it doesn't happen). Many littles don't call their Daddy "Daddy".

 

If your problem is incompatibility, bc you want to call him Daddy and have punishments, I'm sorry, it sounds like you need to meet someone who wants what you want. Don't assume that everyone will be the same as you in this lifestyle. 

Edited July 19, 2018 by little_ballerina