Have any of you guys had slip ups while trying to keep DDLG private? (share ur stories)

[Guest bunnybear11]

Soo.. I'm freaking out about something that just happened and I thought this would be a good topic to post on here and see if any of you guys have gone through something similar while trying to hide ddlg from family or roomates.

 

Recently my daddy and I broke up and he came over to give me my stuff that used to be at his place (stuffed animals, tiny mlp figures, cards I used to make him...) and in the bag was also our "Rules and Punishments" sheet, with really embarrassing stuff written on it (like "ask daddy for permission before touching princess parts and show him" or other kinky related stuff you would NOT want your family to see).

 

Long story short I was so upset and emotionally drained that day that I accidentally left the bag he'd given me in the kitchen, and came up to my room. And just now (a WHOLE day later) I remember the bag, and it's sitting on top of the kitchen table (NOT where I had left it).

 

I thought it was all good tho because the list was in English and most of my family doesn't speak English (we live in Brazil), only my dad, my brother and me, but it turns out my brother went through my things..... he told me, but didn't mention anything weird, so now .... wtf do I do lol Idk whether to laugh or cry over the whole situation.

 

At least things r good w me and daddy again and we're back together heheh.

[xBabydollx]

[DustBunny93]

I am a little who lives at home with my family (my parents and two younger brothers).

 

I have just gotten into ddlg this past year so I really don't have a lot of stuff to try to hide. I have a pair of footie onesie PJs that my mom bought me a few years ago (before I was until ddlg) and some other stuff like a baby paci and sippy cup.

I keep everything hidden in my drawers.

 

About a month or two ago my mom came into my room while I was spending the night at my friend's house and saw my sippy cup sitting on my night stand. She was putting some of my laundry on my bed and apparently saw it. And she quite rudely asked me what it was. And I just said I used it so I wouldn't spill on my carpet in the middle of the night. And she just rolled her eyes and said "yeah right".

So I'm not really sure what she thinks.

But it hasn't been brought up again.

 

But I constantly worry about "being caught" and I never go into little space while at home because of it.

I can only be little through role play in the chat room here.

[Guest Arc]

A while ago I had a flask set engraved as a gift for my ex. It just had "Daddy" on it. I took it home to my university flat and put it on the kitchen table while I made myself a cup of tea, and my flatmate came in and went straight to the box. She was opening it to see what it was before I had time to tell her no. Her face went red and she put the lid back on the box.

 

Nearly all of my friends know I'm into BDSM but they don't know that side of me. So it was a little embarrassing but no big deal.

[LittolWalnut]

I've left my onesies out to hang dry in my bathroom and while I was showering my grandmother had to use my bathroom (there's two bathrooms but only one shower) and I realized when I got out of the shower that I had left my onesie hanging in there! All I could hope was that she thought it was a regular bodysuit haha! I have since accidentally left two more hanging in the garage over night and I know she was in there doing laundry in the morning. Luckily they are pretty generic prints so hopefully she doesn't think anything of it.

[Guest Looby-Lou]

A few weeks ago I was at home in my ground floor flat (apartment) when a neighbour walked past my kitchen window and waved. 

 

It wasn't until after she'd walked by that I realised I had a paci in my mouth - I tend to just wander around doing whatever I'm doing while I'm sucking it. 

 

Could've been really embarrassing, but she didn't comment.  If asked, I'd just say it's to stop me grinding my teeth - no need for all the neighbours to know I have an oral fixation LOL.

[Lola Step]

Only a few times but boy were they embarassing as heck:

 

*My Daddy's brother walked in while I was trying on some risqué thigh highs, had to quickly throw a blanket over myself and thankfully he didn't see anything.

 

*I'm constantly paranoid and stuffing little things (plushies, colouring sheets) under blankets when I hear footsteps.

 

*One time we were at a fancy hotel and I was laying on the bed dressed for 'naughty time' waiting for Daddy to come in and the maid barged in instead, managed to rush to the bathroom before she saw anything but almost had a heart attack.

 

*Daddy himself slips up occasionally and calls me my 'little name' (Bunny) in front of people and I blush like crazyyyy.

[Guest SUeB]

Master allowed me to bring my original kitty tail butt plug home, after it was replaced with a much nicer one.

It was in my overnight bag, that i dumped on the kitchen floor.....open.

Completely forgot about the tail. Until i looked at the bag at least a full day later.

Pretty sure there's a big chance my adult son saw it.

Oh well, my kids already know i am really weird, and that i have sex and stuff. But yeah, my heart dipped.

[Kitten Fluff]

I tend to use baby talk a lot even out of littlespace (Ex: Tummy, Blankie, Sippies etc) And my mom got really bothered by the baby talk. She found my binkies though while going through some of my stuff and kinda had to explain myself and why one of them said "I <3 Daddy." 

 

Yeah didnt go well.

[Little Illy]

Daddy gave me a very good piece of advice when I was living with my family and hiding this side of me:

 

"More than likely they know. You and your brother share everything and your Father loves you unconditionally, they aren't stupid. They probably know you like Disney, puppies, baby blue, acting sweet and childish and overall being a kid. You live with them, and I know you are private, but you are also a little. A real little [Like you, OP] and so your family probably isn't surprised to see a new stuffie on your bed, or a new collar around your neck or anything like that. They take you to see the Disney movies and go to the craft stores and such. They're your family, they know."

 

What Daddy said got to me, which is why I remember it so well. I even wrote a thread (Coming out to Parents) with this ideal in mind.

 

Look, is it embarassing and mortifying? Abso-fucking-lutely. Do you wish it never happen, of course! Can we blame you?! Not at all. But, realistically speaking, your family has an idea on who you are as a person. Unless DDlg is a kink, they know you act like a kid and they have probably already accepted this years ago.

 

What I wouldn't recommend is trying to "get ahead" of this "issue" by overly explaining or hovering/waiting for the ball to drop. The best way to getting back to normal is to forget it. Your brother didn't say anything weird and he may be the only one who saw. Do not freak yourself out and cause undue stress. If anyone has any questions, let them come to you. Until then, just assume they didn't look in.

 

Now, I know some people are thinking "this should be explained because it could be damaging to go left unresolved." And, to an extent, yes! You are right! But without knowing the details of who looked at what and when, you may be shooting yourself in the foot. 

 

All I can say is think of reasons why you may have some of those items (if you have pacies, nappies, onesies, etc) you can tell legit reasons for having those, even if you don't use them for those reasons.

 

Nappies? You wear them for periods, it is cheaper, cleaner and reduces the stress of sleeping with the threat of spilling.

Onesies? Help keep the nappy right in place.

Paci? You grind your teeth at night and that small buffer helps prevent that.

Stuffies? This is a fairly normal item to have, but if not in your family, it was a gift that helps you sleep.

Sippy Cups / Bottles? You tend to keep spilling drinks in your sleep, so you wanted to leak proof your room to prevent messes.

Children's Story Books? Not good enough reason that you may just love them? You are collecting for your future children. 

Coloring Books? Stress buster and anxiety reliever.

 

I know some of the kinkier things are harder to explain, but I just urge you to breathe and take everything as it comes and don't worry over the "what ifs"

[Guest Longlegs]

I got my wires horribly crossed once & called out "princess" while my ex and daughter were both present.
Of course, they both turned around.

I'm honestly kind of known as the deviant in my social circles, so I don't try to actively hide it in most cases.
My sister knows & wouldn't be surprised if my mother did, too.

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

I went to show my mum a txt from my DD on my phone while we were hangin’ out, and he’s titled as ‘Daddy’ along with a bunch of cutesy emoticons...

I realized real fast and covered his name with my thumb. Lol

[Veronicamarie]

Im an older little and two days ago Daddy, me, and my grown son who loves to make me uncomfortable (and lives on his own) were driving to dinner and my son said something about a store at the mall and I didnt hear him so I turned to said what and it came out "what Dadd...." and he was like "hold up..Daddy??!??"

Daddy burst into laughter and I turned al shades of red and my son was like "I'm never going to let you live this down"

Some things to mention though is my son knows very well that I'm in the lifestyle and heard me call my last Dom over a year ago Sir and was fine..and my son is a switch (we have kinky DNA I guess lol)..so I'm not too worried about it...but i stuck to my story about having fur babies haha

[PrincessSnorlax]

i haven't had any slip ups but it is very difficult sometimes when talking to friends about stuff or if in public.