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Guest littlekittyvixen
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Hey guys.

 

I just had to ask this... are there certain hidden rules or standards to being a little in the ddlg lifestyle cause I seriously do not get it. Reason am asking this is do people just assume that all littles should be white or a certain color or size or shape if there is something like that.. I know people have their certain preferences I mean I don't judge you either like your coffee black or white...... is there a certain size of which people should have or be... I have had my fair share of this kind of treatment. Met a few nice guys but when you share pic see how you look like (black in my case ) they ghost you.. use this phrase every time "I will be right back" one is damn sure he aint coming back... I am sure am not ugly yet not pretty like most girls but if you are going to ghost someone can you at least do it gently... it hurts the pride of a person and lowers the self esteem......

 

So am asking are there like hidden standards to being a little? If there is I might as well quit because am sure I would not reach that type of standard ...

 

What do you think?

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Guest Beards_for_Weirds
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There are no hidden standards or rules for real Daddies.
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Anyone and everyone can be what they like in my eyes. <3
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There aren't any hidden rules or general standards. Many ppl have preferences tho, as u are aware. DD/lg is just like the vanilla world. Some ppl prefer their partner black, white, Asian, tall, short, petite, chubby, loves the oudoors, fitness freak, nerdy, clingy, not too clingy etc while some ppl don't have many preferences at all. u will never be everyone's type or everyone's "dream little" so to speak (nobody will ever be perfect for everyone), but that's ok because u are still a little and will be exactly what some ppl are looking for. Just have to find ur right match and that takes patience.
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Some people (the ones that really don't understand what any of this really means) think that way. But no. There is no checklist or rule book. Ignore anyone that tries suggest otherwise.
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Guest Babykitkat 23
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I actually seem to have the same problems, when we get to a part where we swap pictures. I get told I'm ok looking and then the conversation goes dead for a bit, until so and so shows up. With a "your just not my type". Im total fine with that, but the fact of being ghosted and not being told then and there. I don't expect every one to see my picture or face to think I'm as hot as cinnamon bun right out the oven. But at least tell the other person if they are your type or not. Not ignore them then pop out of nowhere.
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You know, people have always said, "Don't judge a book by its cover"; but the truth is that people do. It's human instinct. We eat what looks appetizing, have an idea of what is attractive etc. 

It is okay to not be those peoples types because there is someone out there who IS your type, and who you are theres. It can be so discouraging when vetting for a relationship partner whether vanilla or especially DDLG and it's times like these that are upsetting. 

I'm a curvy little, and its so discouraging sometimes when every single DDLG model is this tiny little thing and it doesn't reflect me. So I can understand to an extent what you're going through. It's almost like you don't fit a mold, but the only person making that mold is you silly head! Break the mold! Littles are everywhere. Black, white, sometimes made of sparkles! We're thin and fat and all about sass! You are who you are and there's nothing you can do but accept that and push forward to be the best you can be! 

You'll find your caregiver one day, I promise! 

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Guest KeiKitten
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I don't believe there is any standard for being a little just as many have said everyone has their own preference! But all you can do is keep introducing yourself to people and making friends who will love and support you! And by meeting people you will one day meet that right daddy/caregiver/daddy who will love you for who you are and will cherish everything about you from your appearance to your quirky little traits! Even those which may be trying ♥

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Damn I'm so sorry you have gone through this no one deserves that 

 

know this having a prefference gives no one the right to treat someone like they don't matter 

 

People need to learn how to treat others as humans

 

its worse not knowing why someone you think you might have a connection with just suddenly stops talking with you with not so much as 'Peace Out'

 

hope you are doing ok here for you

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