Forced Regression

[mylittlemermaid]

So I haven't even officially brought up ddlg with my boyfriend, I chickened out majorly. However, I am wondering how, if ever I get to that point, do I explain forced regression and the fact that it's a turn on? I'm so easily embarrassed and shy when it comes to discussing this with him. Which is why I haven't even really dived into it wholeheartedly

[Guest Sae]

Just be honest and open. Talk to him and explain to him about DDLG, whats it about, and why it interests you. tell him why you like the dynamic. Let him express his interests, concerns or curiosities. I would say back it up with some general talk about role playing. Tell him, 'you know how some people like to role play as a school girl and a teacher, and the school girl is naughty, the the teacher spanks her and has sex with her until she says sorry? I'm into something thats kind of like that.."

 

  Sometimes it helps to even bring like one of your toys. And just say 'this is my jam, I just want you to know it". He might understand. He might not. If he says he is confused just let him be. :3 If he wants to know ways to make it easier for you to express that with out him feeling uncomfortable. (because it happens) just explain to him you still know your an adult, and your still consenting and what you guys do for dirty talk and for that space is still you being an adult %100 its something you okay with.  

[ziva vlad's kitten]

What is forced regression?

[ziva vlad's kitten]

When i started going out with my fiance i didn't know how to explain the things i like to Him either. And when i first tried He was a little bit scared off by it... but willing to look into it for my sake. Now He is as much or maybe more into it than i am.

 

So don't stress about it. bring it up in a gentle way, and ease him into it and see if he likes it too. It's best to be honest and be yourself and not hide things.