New here... and kinda feeling out of place?

[swolekitten]

Hey everyone

 

I've recently gotten into a relationship/or well casual fling with a guy who's introduced to the whole daddy kink. I call him daddy, he calls me kitten - I truly enjoy it. So, I thought I'd benefit from joining this forum as I explore my kinkier side... but...

 

I don't feel like a typical "little". 

 

I don't perceive myself as a certain age/younger than I am, I have no interest in pacis/diapers/etc. and whilst I like cartoons and cute animal stuff, I also like adult things... if anything, I'd describe myself as more of a casual pet player (preferring to be called kitten by my partner, using collars, leashes, etc.) soooo I was wondering... if anyone else on here is like me? Or similar in the sense they explore a more animalistic side of themselves. 

 

 

[swolekitten]

There's about a hundred posts with people all having this same problem. ^-^ 

 

You don't need to be into pacies to be a little, and diapers are usually ABDL associated (which of course does not exclude anyone from DDLG, it's just a different kind of Little ^-^) 

You also don't need a Little age, I could be wrong but I think that applies more to age regression? as in, the age that one regresses to or relates to when in Little Space (which again, not everyone has that either). 

 

Some members are solely into Petplay, some only dabble in DDLG for sexy times. It depends on the person. 

 

In short: no you're not alone and it's quite common.

 

Ah thankyou for answering - and I thought I might not be the only one, but I didn't know whether this forum catered to a certain type of little... I'm relieved to hear it's not! x

[Guest Doe-]

Welcome! There are actually a lot like you! The great thing about this community is that we all accept idk how else to word it but “different strokes for different folks.” Not everyone likes the same ice cream flavor and that’s okay!

 

I hope you stay and make lots of friends! <3

[WhysperKit]

Hi hi ^.^ Welcome to the forums! I'm kinda not your typical Little/Middle either  I love horror movies and I cuss a lot, I'm not into diapers. I do admit to having some pacifiers and stuffed animals, but otherwise, I'm all pet and slave :3 I call my husband Daddy and he calls me Kitten / Little one. 

 

There isn't a certain way you need to be. Just be yourself! If that's what you described, right on! There isn't a book or something on how to be a Little/Pet/etc., it's whatever suits you and your partner. Just do whatever makes you happy. If you consider yourself a Little or Pet, then you're a Little or Pet (or both!). 

[Guest lilboyblue]

me too me too! and so i've just posted looking for friends and i'm new as well. xox

[Guest Arc]

Welcome to the forum ^^

 

There is no set way to be a little. I don't have a different age or wear diapers or other stereotypical things either. I'm just me. I identify as a sub with a middle side, but really it's just my personality. You don't need a label if you don't want one or if a single one doesn't feel quite right. Just be yourself. There's so many people out there so you're never going to be the only one