More daddys less littles

[Kittybubblespop]

I have noticed something.

That more daddies have contacted me and held conversations vs littles. Why do you think this is? Is it because littles are more recessive ? Is because they are shyer? I would love to talk to more littles but even myself i find having a hard time to make the first move.maybe this is a characteritic?

[LittleCelticLass]

For me, I rarely reach out first. I can be very shy, and talking to new people is hard. Daddies, generally speaking, are not usually shy.

[Kittybubblespop]

Im happy you commented tho! Nice to meet you.

[ThePlushiePrincess]

I'm the same, I almost never reach out and talk to people. I'm super shy, bordering scared of new people. I think you may be right though in that Daddies or Caregivers in general are not as shy and usually make the first move. 

[Kittybubblespop]

I loveeeee the my little pony

[Guest SUeB]

Because guys are generally on these kinds of forums to talk to chicks, lol. Girls are maybe happy to talk on discussions, and see no reason for pm's (generally speaking, not in all cases, obviously), but guys see a girl and send her a pm because they want the whole online flirting/hook up thing. Sorry, but yep, that is GENERALLY the case. Again, not always, but very commonly.

[Kittybubblespop]

That is also true

 

I wish for tho more littles to be around for friend ships

[Guest Doe-]

I agree with both, we also have a lot of littles that talk in chat and that’s the usual mode of conversations rather than pm. I think, in my case at least, I want to talk to people before I add them, and you can’t pm unless you’re friends. So I spend most times in chat.

[Daddybears PLB]

Your definitely on to something.

I've actually never been in chat!! It sounds shocking to me now I'm writing it...ha!! The thought of following conversations and trying to bump in during other conversations makes me anxious.

I have had a few littles that I've chatted with now n then in pm but i think they got bored n stopped or their lives are just too busy. I dont get much time to converse regularly back n forth but i do like a littles view on things.

 

I think it's really a mix of different elements but ultimately i think females in general overthink and then talk ourselves out of doing things like messaging someone or what to say, where as most guys are much more straight forward and just go for it. Obviously that is a generalisation and there are exceptions on both sides.

[Quirkygrl16]

I just feel so nervous when chatting,especially to other females. Idk why I just tend not to have female friends I get along with sadly

[Guest Arc]

I have no problems talking to people. I'm almost never the one to send the first message, however, but that's not because I'm scared to. I can do it, I just generally don't feel the need. 

 

I've met people who identify as daddys who are harder to talk to than people who identify as littles. For me it's more the person than their role or how shy they are. Some people just click and are more enjoyable to talk to than others which makes it easier to keep it going naturally. 

[LittleCornflower]

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