Being too little?

[vixzy]

My last daddy left me because I'm "Too little" this made me really really sad... I didn't know that there was such thing as being too little until he left. I need advice, I don't wanna be left alone again, what should I do?

[SoCalMoose]

My last daddy left me because I'm "Too little" this made me really really sad... I didn't know that there was such thing as being too little until he left. I need advice, I don't wanna be left alone again, what should I do?

I don't even know what that means.

I mean, I guess that means he's either not into your little age, or he wasnt prepared for the amount of little space involved...

 

Everyone has their own level of lifestyle involvement, so maybe he just wasn't ready for a full lifestyle, if you were constantly in your littlespace and he wasn't prepared to be a full time daddy, then I see where he's coming from.

At least in this sentiment, it's all on him and it's not you.

 

Hope that helps...

[Knoxdom]

Being "too little" is not really a thing, objectively. It's just about finding the right person. DDLG is a wide range of relationship styles, little ages, types of people, and expectations. If he said you are too little, that's incorrect, because I guarantee there is someone out there who would consider your particular type of littleness to be perfect. It is quite possible you are too little for his personal preferences and expectations, but that's not your fault and he should have phrased it better. If you're worried about the same thing happening again then the best thing I can advise is to have a clear discussion about what your little side is like, and to take things slow. Get to know and understand a potential partner and their daddy side, and let them get to know and understand you and your little side. 

[xBabydollx]

Well "too little" can mean various things from age regressing or age playing too young or being in littlespace too often etc. Whichever the case may be, u were just incompatible with him. There is no reason to worry tho because whatever kind of little u are, there is plenty of ppl out there who will not think u are "too little" for them. There is no reason to change or adjust ur self. u will not be alone forever by default because of how little u get.

[Guest SUeB]

Lots of daddies don't like full-on little behaviour. Mine doesn't. But some love it. So you and that guy just didn't match. Simple as that. So many people think that just because someone calls themselves a daddy, and someone calls themselves an lg, then bam, that's all you need to make a relationship. No. Not even close.

[Guest Arc]

There isn't such a thing as too little, but there is such a thing as being incompatible.

 

For example, I'm a middle so I couldn't be compatible with someone into abdl who wanted me to act like an infant all the time. Our wants and behaviours just don't like up. And that's normal. You're never going to be compatible with everyone just because you're a little and they're a daddy. People do things differently and want different things. It's normal.

 

Perhaps next time you meet a potential daddy have a conversation with them about wants and needs. Tell them about what you're like as a little and what your little space involves. Give yourself the best chance you can of it working out by seeing how compatible you may be before you start a relationship.