Just Started MDLG(?) in my long distance relationship

[Eevee0607]

Hello--

 

Uhm. I've been dating this girl for 10 months now, long distance,, and we just agreed to kinda get into this. I guess I'd just like some advice for me and my (mommy? Dom? :") )while we get into this- just to make things a little easier. Thank you uwu

[Guest Alainnb]

Well, for what specifically do you need advice?

 

I‘m (almost) in the same boat, long-distance mdlg but we are friends with benefits, so I‘m not sure I can help you but I‘ll try <3

[Eevee0607]

Probably how to make the adjustment more smooth, it can kind of be a big change and I don't want too much too fast.

[Guest Alainnb]

Well, how much are you into it already? How much does she know about what you like? Are you having nicknames yet? We don‘t know anything about your relationship yet.

 

As for me, she just started calling me baby because „I behave like one“ . We were very open from the beginning and I told her about various kinks of mine. One day also that I‘m into ddlg and what it is for me. She replied that calling me baby will feel different now but that she won‘t stop. She takes very good care of me, even when I just have a small wound and whine to her, she orders me to buy wound spray and wound cream and checks if I really do it. We‘re sexting, she‘s handling my bratty self very well and damn, she‘s so hot while doing it.

 

 

I have no idea if that will help you? It would honestly help if you could give us more information

 

Other than that, just let it develop by itself. You don‘t need to go from zero to 100. As you can see, in my case, it went from just calling me baby over Taking care of me to dominating me. Baby steps!

 

No idea if that answered your question but if you feel unsure about sharing your relationship out here, you can also add me and write me a message

 

Edit: Typos

Edited July 7, 2018 by Alainnb

[Guest Alainnb]

Ah and: Don‘t worry about it changing too much. I have no idea if you two want 24/7 or not but as for me, we are still very close friends, we talk about everything, really but if one of us - or both of us - are in the mood, it all changes with just one message.

 

Like, we were just talking about politics and I was asking about something... she didn‘t understand what I meant but I said „Nevermind~“ so she went „Tell me baby“ and I replied with „Make me~~“ And you can see where it went from there