Daddy doesn't like littles

[LilBabyCakes]

He thinks they are Cringey, he doesn't accept the idea of it. But he's all up for me being a middle, and that's what I am!! ❤️

In middlespace, my voice changes, and I move quite Differently.. but I want to colour, I want to draw for daddy, I want to have a cute lil binkie blanket, I want a bracelet saying "babygirl" or something, to mark me as his. I want to call him daddy more often too, we usually only call each other those nicknames and talk about rules at night, when I'm usually in middlespace. I want to call him daddy 24/7 alone. Talk about rules, and be more closer to him as a middle during the day.

 

My problem here is.. I think daddy will find my love for colouring babyish, and the drawing, the binkie blanket stuff too.. My little age is 7.

[TheDaddyest]

Yeah, I don't think your daddy is right for you. You should talk to him about how you are as a little and have a direct conversation about it. If he can't accept you, move on and find a daddy who likes you for you!

[DustBunny93]

Just so I have it correct, you mean a "binkie blanket" as a little blanket with a paci attached?

Because if so, normally 7 year olds don't have paci's anymore. Usually 7 is around 2nd grade age.

But coloring is still a normal thing for that age! So I can understand him not liking you using a paci but it's just my opinion. Obviously everyone has a different idea of little/middle space.

I just personally would not use a paci if my age was 7.

 

I hope you guys can work it out or you find a daddy who accepts you.

[Guest Arc]

Communication is so important especially in cases like this. You could be stressing over nothing and he could love you as you are. But you'll never know until you talk about it. And on the other hand, if he doesn't like it it's better to find out incompatibility sooner rather than later when you've invested more in the relationship. 

 

I personally identify as a middle but I sometimes enjoy little things. It's okay to still like other things because there's no set way to do things. Being a middle means different things to different people. Colouring is common for middles. I'm not sure what a binkieblanket is, but baby girl doesn't just have to be a name or thing for littles. I have a lot of clothing and jewellery with baby girl written on it. It's my favourite pet name. ^^ 

 

Just have a talk to him about it and see what he says. You'll never know unless you do and there's no point thinking about the what ifs when you can easily get a definite answer ^^ 

[TheDaddyest]

Communication is so important especially in cases like this. You could be stressing over nothing and he could love you as you are. But you'll never know until you talk about it. And on the other hand, if he doesn't like it it's better to find out incompatibility sooner rather than later when you've invested more in the relationship. 

 

I personally identify as a middle but I sometimes enjoy little things. It's okay to still like other things because there's no set way to do things. Being a middle means different things to different people. Colouring is common for middles. I'm not sure what a binkieblanket is, but baby girl doesn't just have to be a name or thing for littles. I have a lot of clothing and jewellery with baby girl written on it. It's my favourite pet name. ^^ 

 

Just have a talk to him about it and see what he says. You'll never know unless you do and there's no point thinking about the what ifs when you can easily get a definite answer ^^ 

Thank you Arc. This is much better written and nicer than my post. But I'm glad we agree!

[Guest lilboyblue]

Hmmm if your daddy thinks the way that feels right to you is cringey maybe you can either have a serious talk about it and your relationship or find a new daddy? IDK.. that's a tough one.. I think it could be possible that some men feel it is "wrong" or like they are being "creeps" and so they have to understand why it's ok and that it is actually a good thing for you to be closer.