Why is this so hard?

[Pacibby1996]

Hi guys! I rarely post on here but I’m just so lost. I’ve been a little for about 4 years. I’ve had 2 previous daddy’s, one online and one irl but haven’t had one in about 2 years. The dilemma I’m having is that I can’t seem to find anyone I feel compatible with. Ive messaged guys back and forth but never seem to click with them or get annoyed too easily. I know I’m looking for someone who probably doesn’t exist but I don’t want to lower my standards or accept someone who isn’t what I want/need. I’ve been on multiple sites but can’t go more than a couple days conversating with a potential daddy. Is it me? Why can’t I find someone I want to be with? Any advice is welcome! Thanks guys ☺️

[Guest Prat]

Well you basically answered yourself ^^

[Daddybears PLB]

As hard as it may seem You've gotta just trust in the fact that the right person will come along at some point and it will be worth the wait!!

I was single for 7 years before finding the most amazing man I've ever known who is most definitely my perfect match in every way, all my negativity towards love and thinkin i was destined to be alone forever just disappeared like it never existed. I know it can be hard at times as I've been there but just keep living the best life you can, do the things that make you smile and while you're busy living someone will pop up when you least expect it ☺

 

You are right to not lower your expectations in who you want as a partner, otherwise that's just settling and you won't be happy in the long run.

 

Wait it out... you deserve the best love there is.... true love ♡♡♡

[xBabydollx]

Yeah I get what u mean. Perhaps it's time to stop looking so hard? Usually a gf, bf, Daddy, little or whatever, comes when u least expect it. u may be struggling to find someone compatible cuz u could be so focused on finding someone who is specifically a "Daddy" ya know. Instead, maybe try looking for friends. Maybe try joining online communities that correspond to interests of yours; like if it was a certain gaming community, furries, art, music, or whatever you're passionate about. Even here u can look for friends with similarities. This way, u would be more likely to find someone who stimulates ur mind, and keep u interested and then perhaps u can introduce the whole Daddy thing to them if u don't already know they are a Daddy already. If it isn't a matter of lack of interests, then patience is the only advice I can give. For most ppl in the world, it can take quite awhile to find their "forever match" and also perhaps a few days of talking isn't enough to gauge who they are, tho yeah with some ppl it can be hard to keep a conversation going. I just know in the beginning conversations can be very "hi hru" esque, and some ppl takes a while to really open up more/let their personality shine.

[Stuffie-Princess]

Hmm, I get you totally! The best advice I can offer is that Daddies / Girlfriends / Boyfriends / Partners come at random! You click with someone you least expect, so maybe you're searching and searching, but you don't need to, because you can't search for love ( or in your case, a caregiver ) really, because once you find someone. you'll just click like that. Let it flow naturally, talk to different people with the intent of being friends first, and if you really click with someone, you will know! (Im super bad at wording myself so I hope this made sense!)