Dressing little in public?

[Helloprincess88]

Here’s the dress in question! I had to size it down because the file was too big, but it’s just an A-line with this print all over!

Edited July 17, 2018 by Helloprincess88

[Quirkygrl16]

Here’s the dress in question! I had to size it down because the file was too big, but it’s just an A-line with this print all over!

its gorgeous

[Guest Looby-Lou]

Here’s the dress in question! I had to size it down because the file was too big, but it’s just an A-line with this print all over!

 

 

Ohhhhhhh....sigh....so pretty...

You didn't say it was unicorns AND rainbows 

[Guest bunnybear11]

I guess it just really depends on what your big style is, for me "dressing little" has never been a big deal because that's kind of similar to how I dressed before, so people didn't think anything of it.

 

I guess if "dressing little"is very different from how you usually dress maybe start off wearing cute clothes when you're by yourself, just so you'll get used to them, and then try to move to wearing them when you're around strangers, chances are they'll think nothing of it, considering how fashion has gotten like that nowadays, and then when you feel ready move to wearing these clothes around people you trust, and just say you're trying something new.

 

An important thing is to not wear clothes in public that make other people uncomfortable, just remember kinks are a private thing and no one should be exposed to it without consent, it can be quite embarrassing for both parts, and cause unwanted attention from parents with children, that's a very big no no.

[Helloprincess88]

I guess it just really depends on what your big style is, for me "dressing little" has never been a big deal because that's kind of similar to how I dressed before, so people didn't think anything of it.

 

I guess if "dressing little"is very different from how you usually dress maybe start off wearing cute clothes when you're by yourself, just so you'll get used to them, and then try to move to wearing them when you're around strangers, chances are they'll think nothing of it, considering how fashion has gotten like that nowadays, and then when you feel ready move to wearing these clothes around people you trust, and just say you're trying something new.

 

An important thing is to not wear clothes in public that make other people uncomfortable, just remember kinks are a private thing and no one should be exposed to it without consent, it can be quite embarrassing for both parts, and cause unwanted attention from parents with children, that's a very big no no.

I’ve worn colorful clothes in the past but not in recent years. I wore the unicorn dress at home and out for the first time yesterday. I got lots of compliments on it. When I talk about dressing little in public I don’t mean pacifiers and diapers- I just mean a fun print or sparkly shoes. I understand everyone’s definition is different though, but I’m an adult and I know better than to be inappropriate in public Edited July 18, 2018 by Helloprincess88

[Guest bunnybear11]

I’ve worn colorful clothes in the past but not in recent years. I wore the unicorn dress at home and out for the first time yesterday. I got lots of compliments on it. When I talk about dressing little in public I don’t mean pacifiers and diapers- I just mean a fun print or sparkly shoes. I understand everyone’s definition is different though, but I’m an adult and I know better than to be inappropriate in public

 

That's v fun ^-^ little clothes always make me feel special heheh

[AngeI]

I do all the time!

[caramilkee]

There's a lot of posts online about how to be discreet and little in public, so things like "wear a big sweater" or "bring a small stuffie in your bag" or "wear colourful socks" or "use a waterbottle with a spout"

 

And I’m kind of wondering what is it about these suggestions are little? Is it not just a regular everyday thing to do any of the above? I’m really confused on what it means to be little when I read the suggestions,, (new lil here, still learning)

[LittleGirlEmilia]

Wearing a big sweater = makes me feel small.

Bring a small stuffie in your bag = I'm not sure about this one as I don't have a bag that I use daily, but I suppose knowing that your teddy is close by helps to feel little?

Wearing colorful socks = unsure as I wear odd socks because my shoes covers them... maybe because bright socks is just fun?

Use a water bottle with a spout = because it's the closest thing to a sippy/bottle that's socially acceptable.

 

I've never really thought about being discreetly little in public. I sometimes wear my rompers underneath my overalls but I'm just totally fashionable..... I also have my little pony hair clips. I've got my cute phone cover.

 

I'm of the opinion that there's always a time and place for certain things. ^^

Edited October 24, 2018 by Guest

[Nymph]

Sounds like you don't know what works for you yet, you need to figure that out first before having to worry if you can pull it off only privately or also in public, at the end of the day you might not even care for the public option!

 

To be little is to be your happy self that might come with some "immature" taste for your age (some don't need these things though). Of course if you are 19 then it will look "normalish" because you were a child not long ago and might still be considered a child by some people... a 50 year old can't wear a hello kitty shirt without someone staring... hence why they need to stick to more discrete options.

 

A more extreme example could be those who like to wear diapers, they probably don't want to show them off in public and a big sweater is definitely not going to be enough for them to feel little. 

[Bunsy]

Well, being little is not really something that I do time to time. It is who I am. Sure when I’m in little space it’s more pronounced but even in public I always have this air of littleness about me. I have a super cute phone cover, I wear character T-shirts, I have bright neon hightop sneakers, I don’t wear makeup unless I’m “playing dress up” and being a fancy lady lolol. All my pens and my notebook are colorful and cute and I use stickers and stuff in it.

 

I didn’t even realize being little was a thing until I met my Daddy and started dating, he knew right away because it was just who I was and it was wonderful to then be able to fully embrace that side of me with no bad feelings of not being adult enough

[MrPaulDavies]

I think it is very cute when I see a little in public. Such as knee socks out of school, ribbons in hair, pigtails, chokers and collars worn

[caramilkee]

Sounds like you don't know what works for you yet, you need to figure that out first before having to worry if you can pull it off only privately or also in public, at the end of the day you might not even care for the public option!

 

To be little is to be your happy self that might come with some "immature" taste for your age (some don't need these things though). Of course if you are 19 then it will look "normalish" because you were a child not long ago and might still be considered a child by some people... a 50 year old can't wear a hello kitty shirt without someone staring... hence why they need to stick to more discrete options.

 

A more extreme example could be those who like to wear diapers, they probably don't want to show them off in public and a big sweater is definitely not going to be enough for them to feel little.

Hi and thank you for your input! I never considered the whole it can look odd on a 50 year old thing so that makes sense! I only considered it around the 20s age because a lot of the people who post the "how to be little in public" things are usually around that age ~

 

But also I think I’m just a bit confuzzled even by "normalish"? Like, is it not just absolutely normal to wear a hello kitty shirt if you like hello kitty for example?

[caramilkee]

I think it is very cute when I see a little in public. Such as knee socks out of school, ribbons in hair, pigtails, chokers and collars worn

Right but... Those are all very normal things for a girl to wear? (Except the collars) so why are they "little" things?

[Guest Arc]

I don't think they are "little things" specifically, but more things that help people feel little.

 

I think you may be taking it too literally when they call them "little things." Because they're not little things. They're regular things that are every day things to some people, but they're also things that help some people feel little. For example someone might call their stockings a "little thing." Stockings are not little specific but they're a think that help many littles feel little, so they are a "little thing" to them. 

 

Idk if that makes sense. It's about feeling rather than what's literally a "little thing." 

[MrPaulDavies]

I don't think they are "little things" specifically, but more things that help people feel little.

 

I think you may be taking it too literally when they call them "little things." Because they're not little things. They're regular things that are every day things to some people, but they're also things that help some people feel little. For example someone might call their stockings a "little thing." Stockings are not little specific but they're a think that help many littles feel little, so they are a "little thing" to them.

 

Idk if that makes sense. It's about feeling rather than what's literally a "little thing."

That is a good way of putting it. I would also add that it is the combination if things also. So it is not unusual to see a schoolgirl in skirt and white knee socks uniform here in the UK but to see a girl.out in such a combination on a Saturday may make you think "little"

[Bunsy]

[caramilkee]