popcorn.lover Posted June 27, 2018 Report Posted June 27, 2018 So, I'm trying to figure out if I'm a little or not. Cause like I have some little qualities but I'm not sure. So if someone could help me I'd really appreciate it please!!!
neko Posted June 28, 2018 Report Posted June 28, 2018 If you think you're a little, thats all that matters there's no rules to being a little whatsoever 3
Guest Dorian_JE Posted June 28, 2018 Report Posted June 28, 2018 Ok, so what do you mean by qualities? Are you a sub that has come across DDlg or is the whole kink dynamic new to you? You need to be more specific
Guest Loki Posted June 28, 2018 Report Posted June 28, 2018 The only way to be sure you’re a little is to say “yup, I’m a little” and then don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. 2
Little Illy Posted June 28, 2018 Report Posted June 28, 2018 While I agree with the above, I feel like it may not be the only thing the OP is asking. You said you think you may be little because of certain qualities. Well, how do you FEEL about being a little?What you need to do now is research. No one can tell you how to determine if you are a little because what it takes is you researching, exploring and experimenting and then making a decision. Start with baby steps. You have certain qualities? Amplify them or try adding more to them. Explore with things that relate to you on those qualities. If you enjoy it, awesome! Keep going! If not? Awesome! You like what you like! Figuring out you’re a little and figuring out you have little like qualities are different. Does every girl who wears pigtails have to be a little? No, but a lot of littles do. So just RESEARCH and try to figure out if this type of dynamic and/or identity appeals to you. But remember, you don’t HAVE to be a little just because you like some things, but if you find you DO identify as a little, realise whatever makes you feel little is valid and true. 1
Kresaera Posted June 28, 2018 Report Posted June 28, 2018 It took me a while to realize I am a little because all I ever saw about DD/lg were the ABDL videos where women live as babies and I knew that wasn't me. However, I love drinking my juice out of a sippy cup and sucking my thumb helps me fall asleep. Coloring is one of my favorite things to do and I get so excited over the smallest things. I'll be 37 this year and I cannot WAIT for my birthday! The world looks different when you're little and it's a beautiful world to be in. I don't regress to a certain age however, so I can't talk about that, but it's totally okay if you identify as a certain age! If you're questioning if you're a little, you probably are. 1
DaddyPenguin Posted June 28, 2018 Report Posted June 28, 2018 Explore these little qualities you have and go from there. Becuase you may be questioning it does not mean you are not little, it just means you are not sure.
Frog Posted June 29, 2018 Report Posted June 29, 2018 Before I can proceed, may I ask a few questions... What qualities do you think make a little/middle/etc? What qualities do you have that makes you think you might be a little? Has anyone suggested you may be a little? Do you currently feel like a dom/caregiver/daddy/mommy/big?
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