help? idk what to do

[that_little.kitten]

ive been with my dm for 3 years, and suddenly he seems to care less and get angry way more easliiy at me, how do i talk about it to him?

 

[Guest QueenJellybean]

exactly how you just phrased the single sentence above. 

 

"it seems like you care less & you get angry a lot more easily with me. is something going on? i'd like to talk about what is happening in our relationship." 

 

communication is imperative above all else. 

communicate, especially when you don't want to. 

 

good luck!

[Guest BabyGlitterMilk]

communication is hard, and we all feel this, but jellybean’s right! You Have to talk to him, or you’re just going to end up stressed and sad about all these things and he might not even realize his being short with you is hurting you this much!

 

You know we’re here for you ; w;/)

[I_AM_THE_SENATE]

Just gonna be the third person here to say communication. It's the way to go for a good relationship mate! You'll only know if you ask,

 

Ya boi,

 

The Senate

[Guest Arc]

We're all adults here and sometimes we just have to suck it up and act like one even when it's hard. Clear communication is really important so just tell him what you've told us and ask to talk about it. It could be as simple as he just has something going on that's on his mind and not that he cares less. You'll never know until you ask  

[PrincessKittenCupcake]

I would start with something gentle, and timing is everything. Make sure you're both relaxed and in good spirits. I like to ask if now is a good time before I delve into anything serious. I would just let him know that he doesnt seem like himself and that you're concerned. Ask him if there is something going on or bothering him. Try not to just jump in with, "it seems like you don't care about me." Immediately putting him on the defensive will not result in a productive conversation.

[that_little.kitten]

thank you all, i brought it up with him not to long ago, his response was pretty much he tried to seem like he cared but like it seemed like he had to??? idk how to explain it, but just after he sent me off to bed or to do whatever as long as i wasnt dissruptive