How to spoil daddy?

[AllyGirl]

It's so easy for daddy to spoil me. He can play with my hair, make me a yummy snack, watch a movie with me, pretty much give me attention some way or another. Daddy pointed out that sometimes it feels like I get all the nice fun things and daddy just does all the grown up looking after. What are some good ways to really pamper daddy and give him rewards like he gives me?

[Guest QueenJellybean]

this seems like another classic case of communication. 

it's great that he's able to express that he'd like more nice, fun things -- as he puts it -- but he needs to specify what he'd like these things to mean

not just make a passive comment about how you get the nice stuff & he doesn't. 

 

ask him how he'd like to be taken care of. 

for father's day every year, The Giant gets a day off from the things He does for us all the time -- 

we cook breakfast for Him, pay for stuff, & i even give Him coupons to use year 'round for the little things we forget. 

stuff like making sure you tell him how much you appreciate him goes a long way, but every Caregiver probably has their own, personal way of destressing. 

 

for The Giant, a good chunk of video game time with the chores taken care of is a good way to help Him relax. 

find your Caregiver's sweet spot!

[Guest SUeB]

Make him his favourite meal. Go to the cinema to watch a movie HE wants to watch. Give him a massage or foot rub. Do a chore for him that he hates, such as wash the dishes at his place. Give him a break, as in stop asking or expecting him to do things for you. Plenty of things you can do to show him that it's not all one sided.

[Guest Arc]

Making him a meal is a simple but really effective thing you can do. I've yet to meet a man who's day isn't made when you put food in front of them and they had to do nothing for it. My last daddy really loved sweet things so I would make him something like cupcakes that I could decorate all pretty. It depends what they prefer ^^

 

I've always loved making tiny gift baskets around one thing. You could do a movie night with a chocolate bar, some popcorn, a nice beer (or whatever else he likes to drink), and whatever else you can think of. You could also give him the basket with a homemade coupon for a night off watching a movie of his choice, or even a TV show if there's no movie he wants to see, and then he can choose when he uses it too.

 

It's hard to give suggestions because it depends on what they enjoy. I think movies and meals are pretty safe since everyone loves that. Just do something small that makes the time about him. If you think of something more specific he enjoys search pinterest and you'll probably find some ideas ^^

[Kresaera]

[Helloprincess88]

Great ideas here!

 

I think it really depends on your daddy. I have found that learning his love language (from the 5 love languages) has helped tremendously in making him feel loved and cared for. My hubby’s language is acts of service, so doing things for him is the best thing I can do to make him feel loved. Cooking for him, showing him small acts of love (getting his cup of coffee in the morning and knowing how he likes it, picking up his favorite snack and putting it in his pillow, making him a cake that was his favorite in childhood, etc). Also, a surprise BJ is his absolute favorite thing

[PrincessKittenCupcake]

Cooking a good meal or baking cupcakes is my go-to. If I stay over and don't have somewhere to be the next morning, I'll clean his house or iron his clothes before I leave. If he is having people over and I won't be there, I'll freeze a lasagna or something for him to pull out for dinner. Depending on where you live, scarves are super easy to knit. I also do not let him get up during dinner. If he needs something, I get up and bring it to him. If he's the kind of guy who likes his ego stroked, make sure to dote on him in public. If we are at a party or something, I will fix his plate, get his drinks, etc. If your partner is anything like mine, it will make him feel like an absolute king.

[MadelynVictoria]

Run a shower/bath for him (guys like baths, too )

 

Welcome him home from a long day at work with a beer

 

Make dinner for him

 

Give him a massage

 

Leave sweet little notes around the house for him

 

Do a chore he doesn't like doing for him

 

Surprise sexy time

 

Buy snacks and rent a Redbox movie he'd like and have a movie night with him

[Lola Step]

Spoili g Daddy also doesn't have to be super over the top or time consuming either- Every morning I stay at my Daddys house while he's in the shower (The space of about 5-10 minutes I'll make the bed fold his clothes, unload the dishwasher, get his drink ready, clean his room, and load the washing machine. He's always super impressed when he comes out and I know it's not really "spoiling" but it's just some everyday stuff I do to show my Daddy how much I appreciate him!

[Guest infinitecases]

Every Daddy wants different things, perhaps ask him for what he thinks is affection for him? 

 

You could cook his favourite meal, dress up in some new lingerie for him (etc hehe), buy him something he's wanted for a long time as a surprise, spend a day doing what he loves, lots of little things like paying full attention to him and having some quiet time to yourselves, handmake him some presents... give him lots of cuddles and kisses.