New Little

[Princess_Reg]

So I was talking the other day with my best friend and the topic of Ddlg came into the convo. She told me she was really intrigued by it and that she wanted to actually find a daddy. She asked me for advice but I'm not really good at giving it. I tried my best haha. But what would your advice be for new littles? Edited June 22, 2018 by Princess_Reg

[CaresAlot]

For a new Little, before you even start looking for a Daddy, you need to find yourself.  What kind of Little things do you like (sippy cups/pacies) and is there any specific age that you enjoy?  How often are you able be Little?  What activities do you like to do when you are little?  Find some Little friends to chat with and get a feel for this dynamic?  Filter it out to the things you enjoy; do any of them help meet your wants, needs and desires.

 

Once you know who you are then you need to think about what your expectations of a Daddy or a Caregiver are going to be.  Do you need him to have rules for you?  Are there going to be punishments?  Sexual or nonsexual?  How much contact do you need?  LDR or somebody that you can physically be with?

Remember that a guy does not come in and tell that he is your Daddy.  The title Daddy is something that you and you alone give.  Take your time in making sure that he matches up with your expectations.  The more time you take, the greater chance of being successful. 

[Guest Kerjin]

For a new Little, before you even start looking for a Daddy, you need to find yourself.  What kind of Little things do you like (sippy cups/pacies) and is there any specific age that you enjoy?  How often are you able be Little?  What activities do you like to do when you are little?  Find some Little friends to chat with and get a feel for this dynamic?  Filter it out to the things you enjoy; do any of them help meet your wants, needs and desires.

 

Once you know who you are then you need to think about what your expectations of a Daddy or a Caregiver are going to be.  Do you need him to have rules for you?  Are there going to be punishments?  Sexual or nonsexual?  How much contact do you need?  LDR or somebody that you can physically be with?

Remember that a guy does not come in and tell that he is your Daddy.  The title Daddy is something that you and you alone give.  Take your time in making sure that he matches up with your expectations.  The more time you take, the greater chance of being successful. 

 

Very well said. IMNSHO, I believe the second part is the most important part. And that is, figuring out what you want from your daddy. You need to, as a little who's going to 'submit' to a Daddy in essence, define to yourself what the Daddy should be and do. What traits he must have. What your expectations will be. 

 

Then, clearly communicate those expectations and limitations to any prospective Daddy and be wary of those that jump right in and don't discuss those expectations and limitations.

Edited June 22, 2018 by Kerjin