Allowance

[SamL]

Well we aren't role-playing here, but yeah, two little and a middle get allowances.

[Guest]

I love the idea of getting an allowance. Specifically I like change in the form of dimes and nickles. Not quarters, quarters are my adult money for the washing machine. I don't mind if allowance is given as money itself, but I want to earn it.

 

I handle all my own money and finances. I have a job and make sure everything is in order. Having a TPE where I can't access my own money isn't something I'm willing to allow my (future) Daddy to control. On the other hand I do need help in learning to spend money without anxiety. If my (future) Dada is open to it I may ask him to help me to build up to feeling better about spending money. I need to create a Willy Nilly spending account.

 

This isn't really about rp, its actually how I feel about money. I want all the change! Unless I get to much then I save it.

Edited January 10, 2019 by Baby_squee

[Guest CaptainAmerica97]

I think the allowance is a cool idea even if you are making your own money, and if you are married than it is yawls money. daddy or mommy can give you a certain amount and you can either save it or go shopping with daddy or mommy as a way to spend time together. 

[Lil Amulet]

I used to be princess and we talked about allowance but it never happened which is totally fine I'm not bringing in an income at the moment so its not really fair. So now that I'm mommy at the end of every pay period whatever my working little brings in after bills are paid goes right to him. He's not allowed to spend any money on me at all. He is to spend it on him only. This week I got to give him 170 that has to last him two weeks.

[SamL]

I previously stated that I give allowances however, I thought it might be useful to point out another dynamic I've used after reading some of the comments.  I've had non-Ddlg relationships that were TPE-type relationships.  One in particular was with a professional woman who earned very good money on par with my income.  We were together for almost exactly three years - nothing horrid happened to end the relationship, we were just young when we started and both of us changed.  Anyway, we had talked about it and decided that it was time to dissolve the relationship and enter the next phase of our life.  Last act as her D was to take her to the bank and close out the account I had set up three years earlier.  We'd been able to save $350/week over and above our living expenses.  She had been signing over her checks to me for that time and I opened two savings accounts putting $175/week in each.  She got a lovely parting gift of over $27,000.

[LittleMissieCND]

Sounds like an amazing idea to me.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

i don't have an allowance per say, but The Giant manages our household finances. 

we're engaged + have been together/living together for nine years. 

i give Him my half of rent monthly, as well as my share of the bills, + the rest of the money i make it mine to spend freely, 

but i always ask Him first before spending it, even if it's just a "hey, i'm going to the mall, can you give me a budget?"

 

since we share finances/live together, it's helpful to be able to be on the same page. 

i'm aware of His finances too! 

[junebug0325]

I can’t really comment because my Daddy and I don’t live together, nor do we share finances. However, I wouldn’t mind if my Daddy gave me an allowance. When I am in little space, it is really hard to do “normal adult things” such as cleaning. So having a chore chart and an allowance would probably be good for me, honestly.

 

Thanks for reading!

 

Junebug xxx