Guest Zephy Posted June 17, 2018 Report Posted June 17, 2018 I just don't understand when the little seems to be dealing with over-the-roof anxiety yet she's she the one visiting the Daddy who's apparently fully aware of it. A lot of the issues that she seems to be struggling with wouldn't be the case then. Besides if at every turn the Daddy is going to be responding with how he/they've got everything covered and discussed, what's the point of all this? Is he like disregarding his own little's plea of asking advice or help or what? 1
Maids Posted June 17, 2018 Author Report Posted June 17, 2018 (edited) Our original plan was for him to come see me, we had a plan and everything lined out for when he comes to see me - then I changed my mind and wanted to go see him because I wanted to see a band that was touring around his area. I want to get stamps on my passport and stories under my own belt that say "I have been out of Canada" I know I have plenty of time as I am young, but it seems next to impossible due to my home issues. That's another reason why I'm wanting to get out of this country, just for a week to get away from my family issues and have an escape. I am IN the situation, I do know that my Daddy is on the internet, but it's incredible devaluing to hear him continue to be called that despite me pleading for you not to. He may be a "man I met on the internet" in your eyes, but you have no idea what goes on behind closed doors. I am completely aware that yes I have seen him on camera every single bloody night, I talk to him on the phone 24/7, I have seen him at his worst moments, he has seen me through my worst moments, yet to meet eachothers families - doesn't mean I know him fully in person. Everyone has their secrets... but back to what I said above, with all that I have going on in my life - isolating my Daddy into a box of uncertainty and threats isn't the best idea as he is my safe haven from all of my other shit going on, which is not going to be mentioned in this topic as it's a completely different and sensitive topic. He has earned all my trust and I feel so safe with him, even with my request to stop calling him devaluing terms and continuing to badger my Daddy with very little to know care of how I feel. So do not go around saying you are "looking out for me" when you completely ignored my request. I made this topic to gather more ideas to help me fly smoothly and cope without my ESA present, not to be told repeatedly how much of a bad man my Daddy could possibly be - so what if I am the one flying with all of my anxiety? I want to. I don't want to be in a safety bubble my whole fucking life. I feel - well felt that way about him, but all of this has made me doubt that one of my merely few certainties and safeties are possibly facades. It's different to just like someones post and say "Yes, I agree with x please be careful but here is some advice that you were looking for..." rather than me constantly reading the same thing and creating a bigger void in me. I have said many times that my Daddy is trustworthy and it was just Dulci's paranoia, why do you feel the need to keep stirring the pot of uncertainty? We acknowledged and tackled the insecurities in the call, then the pot got stirred again... I'm closing this topic because it has officially stopped being helpful and now my Daddy and I have to rebuild our foundation. I made this post to feel less alone that it's a "you'll be okay on the flight and you will cope without your ESA" for some mere confidence boost - but it has turned into the complete opposite with shoving doubt and isolation in my face. I have never felt more alone in my fucking life. Thank you for those who were actually helpful... Edited June 17, 2018 by Foxette 1
MysticVy Posted June 17, 2018 Report Posted June 17, 2018 WanderingWonderland: Honestly, meeting on the internet is not a bad thing. What? How? Hm. Ill tell you. My mom met my step mother on imvu. My dad met my step mother on imvu. And they are all married. Yes, they were careful, and ive known Foxette and Siniwit for a while now and i know they are not soo fucking clueless on what they need to do and what they need to have. So what if she brings her toys? If she wants to bring her toys and have a night with her daddy, then let her. She makes a mistake? Thats her own fault and she will know next time. They are on skype with each other 24/7 so hes not fake. And he has verified his age and so has she. They have know each other for 10 Months, same time my mom and step mom knew each other. And they have been together for 2 months. They are old enough to know what choices to make. You dont like there idea? Then so be it. Leave. Its not you, its not your relationship, its not your life. So, leave my best friend alone please. Thank you <3 Oh! And another thing. I get your point. I see both sides. I understand you "care" or whatnot, but they are adults. They are not clueless and im pretty sure Siniwit has a brain to not fuck with her. She wants to see her daddy. Two little birdies are meeting and im so happy for them, and you ALL should be too if you really cared so please, leave my friends alone, or i will have to report you ALL 2
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