Help please?

[Happy.lil.sushi.roll]

So I'm a little and my boyfriend interested in being my caregiver but he really doesn't know how to be my daddy. any suggestions I could suggest to him? we're both new to this, I've never had a caregiver and he's never had a little.

[Guest Professor Optics]

One suggestion is to read up and research as much as you can about the dynamic. Get your boyfriend signed up on the site where he can ask questions and find out information from other daddies, littles, etc.

 

Ultimately, every CG/L relationship is unique, and should be tailored by your individual needs. Communicate with your partner, find out what his limits are and let him know what your limits are. One thing you could do, is write out a list of things you'd like from him as a Daddy as well as what things you'd like to try, both sexually and non-sexually. Have your partner do the same, instead declaring what he would like from you as a little. Once both of you have completed your lists, swap them and read what the other person is interested, discuss it and find a midway point where both of your needs and desires can be met.

[Daddybears PLB]

First i want to say I am so happy for you both to take this step into starting a Ddlg relationship, i feel that there is no love between a couple that compares to the special love between a little and their Caregiver ♡X♡

 

Every Little and Caregiver is different so in my opinion figuring out what type of little you are and what type of caregiver he is and also in what way you want to implement it into your current relationship is really a journey you both need to take both seperately and together through reading and trying out different aspects to find out what the best fit is for you both,eventually you will find out what you enjoy the most and just have fun and enjoy the journey. Ask questions lots of them but expect lots of different opinions and answers as everyone is unique and they are only answering from their own point of view, by all means take what they say on board but do not take it as something set in stone, it may be useful or it may not you must decide what information is relevant to you and what isn't so please try not to become over whelmed as it can be confusing to someone new to the lifestyle.

Communication is your best tool for achieving a positive outcome for the relationship. My Daddy and i have been together quite a while in real life and continually make the effort to chat and discuss our feelings and thoughts.

 

As i said it is a journey, one which might take some time, this is totally the norm. Do not force or rush the process along, go with the flow and enjoy it as it comes.

 

I think I've waffled enough...ha... so I'll leave it at that for now, if you want any more help i am there as im sure others will be too, the forum is a great place to learn and make like minded friends ☺

 

LittleBear x