need advice :/

[imdaddyslittledolly]

I feel like my daddy never has time for me and never puts me first because we're long distance. I don't know if it will get better on its own (past issues have) or if I need to talk to him about it (which is super scary because I'm always scared he's going to get mad which he never has gotten mad at me I'm just dumb) or if I need to just end it.

[aer'sdaddy]

Coming from a daddy who's little just told him the exact thing. My opinion is go to him. I know our situations are probably different but remember he's your daddy. He's there for you to go to when you need something or to talk to him. I'm sorry if this doesnt help and so sorry to hear about your situation. I hope it all goes good for you! Edited June 16, 2018 by aer'sdaddy

[Little Illy]

I’m going to be blunt for the sake of getting through:

 

COMMUNICATE - you are an adult and I know it is scary, but if you can’t communicate with your partner... who can you?

 

I recommend reading this - https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/28037-communication-is-vital/ (sfw).

 

But, honestly, if you can’t talk to a partner about these things, then... what? What happens when things g t worse (if they do), or something traumatic happens. If you (general You) are going to be in a relationship then You need to be mature enough/able to communicate through it.

[Guest Arc]

 if I need to talk to him about it (which is super scary because I'm always scared he's going to get mad which he never has gotten mad at me I'm just dumb) or if I need to just end it.

 

 

Communication is such an important thing. Yes it can be scary because you don't want to hurt people, but would you rather the tiny chance of temporarily upset someone a little bit, or the more likely chance of being hurt in a devastating way yourself over something completely preventable? 

 

The majority of partner issues can be solved with communication. If you cannot communicate you are not ready to be in an adult relationship. 

[Guest Spookycupcake]

I struggle with this somewhat. My daddy and I see each other often but we are also long distance. I have brought up the issue and to be honest I didn't get the answer that I wanted. I got hurt. And it could be different for you.

[SilentType]

Problems don't solve themselves. Talk to him. If he gets mad, then you're better off without him. Don't settle for someone who can't take his role seriously