Not all who wander r lost right?

[Guest Moosebaby142]

It's okay to not be okay sometimes. Edited November 15, 2018 by Moosebaby142

[Aaziz832]

Hiya! Nice long read! Lol! First and foremost, I’m sorry he’s always working and wish he can just spend all of his time with you! Keep venting out just like you have now! I believe this community is great with support and you will get a lot of it from here! That’s one way to deal with it, surrounding yourself with people who are understanding! You can make some great friends here! Also, try and start keeping yourself busy like around the house or gardening Or there’s always coloring books or arts and crafts! It’ll make the time go by much quicker! Making friends is as simple as saying hello and I’m sure you’ll have no problem doing so! The whole thing about the trust issues, if there’s no sign of him doing it, don’t be so suspicious and trying to dig deep! Let it go for a little bit and just trust him! He has apologized, and I’m sure he deserves a second chance again on how you’ve trusted him in the beginning! I’m sure he loved and adores you and that’s why he keeps you so close! If you’re ever needing to talk, just send me a message! I love being there for people and I love helping! Talk away as much as you want!

[guessitsdaddy]

I feel sorry for how you are feeling, but I know it will sound harsh saying this but people need to work to earn a living and I think you will need to try your hardest and be the best little you can in the hours that you have together.

 

I would personally recommend setting up things like skype calls whenever he has a few minutes if that is an option, it helps to bring you a little bit closer to him.

[CrazyLittleBuggaBoo]

I have horrible separation anxiety! I know how you feel. It's really hard, and thinking about how you know you shouldn't be feeling this way only makes it worst. Having a job yourself, really can help. I don't work much((I'm a cleaner)), only three days and only for a few hours. But on the days I work, it's easier to not think about him being away. One we're both away, and two focusing on getting work done.  We do actually text a long during the day while his at work. Breaks are a great time to text or call, or to even just shoot one checking on you, thinking about you, missing you, love you text. A few years ago Mister Master had a job where he had to wake up really early in the morning. I was like you, I liked to get up for that time while he was getting ready to have time with him before he was gone for the day. Then I would spend most the day sleeping to pretend he was still home with me lol

 

If you don't already, ask him to text you or call you on his break. Or even just on his lunch. Just a few minutes, or a few texts saying "I love you", "I miss you", "How's your day" or "My day is going ______" can really help to keep the separation anxiety at bay. It also helps to have "friends" from him. Mister Master has bought me many "friends" that are special. Stuffed animals and other toys. Octokitty is my favorite, she reminds me I'm special and loved. She's sweet and a good listener. Rockett keeps me safe and protects me while I sleep, he cases away all the bad and negativity. Twinkles sings "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star" to me to help clam and relax me And there's Tibbers... My giant teddy bear that watches over us all. Smooshy Mushy are adorably cute squishy toys, that are great for small cuddles, very smooth and soft, and great to squeeze when anxiety hits hard. Plus they smell goods.

 

So, ask him to buy you a special friend, a doll or stuffie that contects you two together. Ask him for break time calls and texts. Send him pictures of yourself randomly taken throughout your day. Ask if he'll send you pictures of himself on breaks, sometimes, randomly, always. I'm sure if you talk about everything to him you'll be able to find something that will help you and work well for the both of you.