Call Me Bambi Posted June 12, 2018 Report Posted June 12, 2018 I have always called my daddy Daddy whether we are in big space or little (or Daddy) space. It just feels wrong calling him anything else. I even do it when we are in public. He's always Daddy to me. Does anyone else always call their CG by Daddy or Mommy or do you switch back and forth based on head space?
Guest aphroditelaughs Posted June 12, 2018 Report Posted June 12, 2018 Nah - he's Daddy in our home and that's it. While I always think of him that way, we're very private people. Plus I don't want to risk questions/judgement or accidentally exposing someone to things they'd rather not be exposed to.
daddyslittleprincess23 Posted June 12, 2018 Report Posted June 12, 2018 My Daddy is always Daddy.... unless I am in a public situation where I dont feel comfortable... when he is around his kids or I am in a crowded public place...
Guest Arc Posted June 12, 2018 Report Posted June 12, 2018 I always did, except for public spaces where people could hear and be made uncomfortable. So busy/loud places where it's unlikely to be heard are okay, but quiet places where lots will hear are not. I believe that it's a kink thing and people not consenting shouldn't be forced to have any part in what I'm doing. It can make a lot of people uncomfortable and I'm not okay with doing things that will make others uncomfortable. When it's just two people together you don't need to use names or titles to get their attention so I would rather not call someone Daddy for an hour than make people uncomfortable, because that doesn't affect me but the alternative can affect multiple people. If that makes sense .-.
neworder Posted June 12, 2018 Report Posted June 12, 2018 daddy only in public when my little was a pretty good genetic match, thus not raising any eyebrows. first names around people I know, though.
SleepyKitten Posted June 12, 2018 Report Posted June 12, 2018 My Daddy is Daddy inside and out of little space, I am always a little bit little so... The only places I don't call him daddy are in public or around people, or when he is sad or hurt (then I take care of him and call him other pet names more).
Guest SUeB Posted June 12, 2018 Report Posted June 12, 2018 i called Him Daddy in the beginning, and still do on the rare occasion. Now He's mostly Master. But in public He goes by His first name. No way on earth would i ever call Him by His titles in public. And He wouldn't want me to. Our relationship dynamic is not the business of anyone but us. Calling Him by His actual name doesn't make Him less of my Daddy, Dom or Master. And calling Him Daddy or Master doesn't make Him more of one.
xpaciprincesss Posted June 12, 2018 Report Posted June 12, 2018 I call him Daddy most of the time, when around friends (who know and are ok with our dynamic), or maybe even in other public settings when people can’t normally listen. I mean, if he’s away and I have to raise my voice to call him, I call him by his first name, or a pet name.
Guest Dulci Posted June 12, 2018 Report Posted June 12, 2018 Not all the time for me. In public : no. At home: some of the times. He's my partner first and foremost. Daddy second
Guest DomDaDa Posted June 12, 2018 Report Posted June 12, 2018 Mostly just at home or out of ear shot. Although I did have a rule for a particular person to use that term three times a day in public.
Guest Loki Posted June 12, 2018 Report Posted June 12, 2018 (edited) This is my opinion. People outside of the dynamic deserve to be respected. This means there are two acceptable reasons for a little to call their Daddy, “Daddy”, in public. 1. People in the public sphere have consented to witnessing the dynamic. (For example, at a Munch) 2. The little is not capable of being an adult. If they are not capable of being an adult they should not be in the dynamic. Our dynamic is abusive to the uneducated, and to the truly ignorant, they believe we are pedophiles. Putting aside our community’s emphasis on consent, why would you risk the abuse of outsiders? Then again, maybe I live in a rough area. It depends on where you’re from to a certain degree. Edited June 12, 2018 by Loki
Guest SUeB Posted June 12, 2018 Report Posted June 12, 2018 This is my opinion. People outside of the dynamic deserve to be respected. This means there are two acceptable reasons for a little to call their Daddy, “Daddy”, in public. 1. People in the public sphere have consented to witnessing the dynamic. (For example, at a Munch) 2. The little is not capable of being an adult. If they are not capable of being an adult they should not be in the dynamic. Our dynamic is abusive to the uneducated, and to the truly ignorant, they believe we are pedophiles. Putting aside our community’s emphasis on consent, why would you risk the abuse of outsiders? Then again, maybe I live in a rough area. It depends on where you’re from to a certain degree. There's no reason it should matter where you're from. You make very good points.
Call Me Bambi Posted June 13, 2018 Author Report Posted June 13, 2018 i find that its easier as of late to use daddy in public because i've had friends and such write it off as if i'm using it ironically like so many people do.... i didn't mean to be disrespectful to those around me. I'm sorry
LittleKitten13 Posted June 13, 2018 Report Posted June 13, 2018 I switch back and forth from little to big. If I'm little in public, it's less using any names, and more just being excited over something. When I have sleepy/sick/scared little space, I'm (thankfully) usually in private with Papa and can call him papa whenever.
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