About Being Little

[Akuchiakuba]

So, I wanted to contribute to the community and post something, but I'm sorry to say that I'm not used to this format. I'm from Amino, and I do blogs. That's the only thing I know how to do. So this is a blog, really. Sorry about that. But I'll try to make it good.

WARNING

This blog suggests at content which might trigger some. While nothing is stated in detail, please take caution when reading.

About Me: As a Little

I am not shy. Shy is not the word. I am terrified of human interaction. More specifically, I'm terrified of negative emotions. Crying, screaming, cursing, even a raised voice or subtle tone can send me into a full-blown panic attack. I'm terrified of it. I am constantly reading the air around me, the very aura of the energy around me. If I sense tension, I immediately tense up myself, preparing myself for a storm.

So it should come as no surprise that as a little I am both very needy and obedient. I need constant reassurance because I'm afraid of messing up, getting in trouble, causing tension to spark into the air around me like lightning. I want to be obedient so I never mess up like that.

Because of this, words mean the world to me. Soft words, reassuring words, kind words. I melt like butter under sweet pet names and gentle praise. I crave voices in my ear and pats on the head. These are such small things, but to me they are everything.

I often say I don't understand bratty littles, but that's not really true. I think I'm objective enough to stand back and look to see the draw of being a bratty little. There's something playful and cute about stomping your feet and demanding you have your way. There's something to be said of the thrill that can come from a dangerous tone and a hooked finger, beckoning. I understand, I could just never do it.

This leads me to my question, for what is a discussion without a prompt? I would like to know how the rest of the littles here like to behave. What sort of dynamic do you have? What stirs your heart into joy, as a little? Being bratty? Obedience? Something else? Let me know. I'd like to get to know you all.

[Akuchiakuba]

What... What happened!? Why are there such big spaces between the titles?

 

Someone is going to have to teach me how to code these things... =∆=;

Edited June 11, 2018 by Akuchiakuba

[Baby_Vampire_Princess]

I'm pretty well behaved but I can be very mean and I guess bratty when I'm sleepy. Also if I feel embarrassed I won't listen because then I prefer hiding.

[Akuchiakuba]

I'm pretty well behaved but I can be very mean and I guess bratty when I'm sleepy. Also if I feel embarrassed I won't listen because then I prefer hiding.

Oh, I see. I've never considered how different situations might affect me. Though as a person I tend to be pretty unresponsive when sleepy, so I probably still wouldn't be mean. ^^ Thank you so much for responding! I really appreciate it.

[Sparklefrosting]

I love being bratty but for my Daddy and me it's more of a playful thing. Daddy knows I'm being playful so his discipline is playful in turn. 

For example;

Me: *taunts* YoU'rE a DuM dUm!

Daddy: *In a monster voice* You'll regret that! 

Me: Oh nu! *hides under blankie*

Daddy: *traps me under blankie and evil laughs* HAHAHA!

Me: *Pouts* Wah!

Daddy: Am I still a dum dum?

Me: *In an angel voice* no.

Daddy: *Gives me all the snuggles* Good. 

[Akuchiakuba]

I love being bratty but for my Daddy and me it's more of a playful thing. Daddy knows I'm being playful so his discipline is playful in turn. 

For example;

Me: *taunts* YoU'rE a DuM dUm!

Daddy: *In a monster voice* You'll regret that! 

Me: Oh nu! *hides under blankie*

Daddy: *traps me under blankie and evil laughs* HAHAHA!

Me: *Pouts* Wah!

Daddy: Am I still a dum dum?

Me: *In an angel voice* no.

Daddy: *Gives me all the snuggles* Good.

 

That sounds really sweet. ^^ I still don't think I could handle that because sometimes I'm incapable of telling the difference between play and serious. I just had an emotional breakdown because I thought my brother-in-law was chewing me out for listening to music.

 

He was joking.

 

Still, I think that's a great dynamic to have! •v• It sounds like you two are really close. Thank you so much for your post! I loved reading it.

[Guest Dulci]

I'm such the opposite of you; I tried amino and just could not get the hang of it. However forums? Yup! Old school  

 

In terms of little me; I like to think I'm sweet and adorable; but my Daddy just calls me stubborn/bratty ! I'm also not clingy and if my daddy was clingy it would just not work - I just love my own company. 

[Akuchiakuba]

I'm such the opposite of you; I tried amino and just could not get the hang of it. However forums? Yup! Old school  

 

In terms of little me; I like to think I'm sweet and adorable; but my Daddy just calls me stubborn/bratty ! I'm also not clingy and if my daddy was clingy it would just not work - I just love my own company.

 

Haha, yeah. I've been on Amino for a while now, so I've gotten the hang of making blogs. But I haven't been in a proper forum since I was in high school, and I can't even properly remember how to use BBCode anymore. I'm still trying to figure it out.

 

Thank you for explaining your dynamic! Bratty littles seem to have such great relationships with their cgs, maybe I would be considered boring. XD I'm sure you're plenty adorable, though, even if what he says turns out to be a little bit true. Being independent is a great quality to have! I try not to be clingy, but I'm sure that would be my biggest downfall as a little.

[Guest TheLittlestMouse]

I think i am pretty good at listening and doing chores sometimes i get pouty if i dont get my way or throw an attitude

 

but for the most part i am bubbly and funny and laugh lots

 

Maybe at times a tad bratty!!! ^.^~

[Akuchiakuba]

I think i am pretty good at listening and doing chores sometimes i get pouty if i dont get my way or throw an attitude

but for the most part i am bubbly and funny and laugh lots

Maybe at times a tad bratty!!! ^.^~

Thank you so much for answering! This seems to be the way a lot of dynamics I have seen usually go. There's nothing wrong with a good balance between the two. •v•

[xBabydollx]

I am a submissive little. Very obedient. A 'what Daddy says, goes' kinda girl. To fully submit to a partner makes my little heart swarm. I don't identify as a brat, but have been told in the past that I can be bratty, which is true! It is for the exact reason u mentioned in ur post; the thrill. For me, it comes from a silly and playful place. I consider my occasional brattiness to be very mild, and immedoatly lose all interest in the behavior the second it seems like a partner no longer finds it cute/playful/funny. All they would have to say is, "that is enough" and it would come to a full stop. I can be in littlespace and petspace at the same time too, which is a lot of fun. My energy seems to pick up then and I become extra playful and silly. I also can relate a bit to what u said, cuz I get social anxiety XD

[Akuchiakuba]

I am a submissive little. Very obedient. A 'what Daddy says, goes' kinda girl. To fully submit to a partner makes my little heart swarm. I don't identify as a brat, but have been told in the past that I can be bratty, which is true! It is for the exact reason u mentioned in ur post; the thrill. For me, it comes from a silly and playful place. I consider my occasional brattiness to be very mild, and immedoatly lose all interest in the behavior the second it seems like a partner no longer finds it cute/playful/funny. All they would have to say is, "that is enough" and it would come to a full stop. I can be in littlespace and petspace at the same time too, which is a lot of fun. My energy seems to pick up then and I become extra playful and silly. I also can relate a bit to what u said, cuz I get social anxiety XD

Thank you for such an informative post! Yeah, I feel pretty strongly that I must have social anxiety, but I don't want to really call it that because I haven't been diagnosed as having it. I could just be a melodramatic person who takes things way too far. I might even be what is considered abusive, I dunno. But because I've never seen a doctor I have no definitive proof that I actually have social anxiety.

 

You seem to balance bratty behavior really well! I certainly envy that as I seem to have trouble distinguishing the line where it turns serious. Well, I say that, but I've never actually had a cg before. ^^; I'm basing it on my ability to distinguish a joke from seriousness in daily encounters.

[xBabydollx]

I"m not diagnosed either, just highly suspect I may have it lol. Seeing a doctor is definitely the best bet tho. As for finding a balance, having someone who will always let u know when u are going too far is a big help (also having phrases or gestures to subtly let u know to simmer down). I don't like to wonder about anything. I like clarity. So ppl who are always clear about how they feel or what they want/don't want are the best to me.

[LittleKitten13]

I'm a pretty good little girl, but when I get really sleepy or am upset, I can get kind of bratty.  But really I just like papa to be happy.

[Akuchiakuba]

I"m not diagnosed either, just highly suspect I may have it lol. Seeing a doctor is definitely the best bet tho. As for finding a balance, having someone who will always let u know when u are going too far is a big help (also having phrases or gestures to subtly let u know to simmer down). I don't like to wonder about anything. I like clarity. So ppl who are always clear about how they feel or what they want/don't want are the best to me.

That would be really helpful. I guess in the long run I just need to have a real cg to understand it. I've only ever had one, but I don't count him because he didn't act like a caregiver at all. I still consider myself as someone who's never had a caregiver before. Maybe if I get one one day I'll understand.

[Akuchiakuba]

I'm a pretty good little girl, but when I get really sleepy or am upset, I can get kind of bratty.  But really I just like papa to be happy.

Someone else said this, too. I have never considered myself as someone who would do that, but I never can tell. Still, as long as it's working for you guys, it must be great! Thank you so much for replying to my post!

[LittleKitten13]

Someone else said this, too. I have never considered myself as someone who would do that, but I never can tell. Still, as long as it's working for you guys, it must be great! Thank you so much for replying to my post!

I don't MEAN to get bratty, in fact I often try to fight it, but it's just a battle I keep losing.

[Akuchiakuba]

I don't MEAN to get bratty, in fact I often try to fight it, but it's just a battle I keep losing.

Aw, don't worry. ^^ It's okay. If you don't feel good, there's nothing you can do about it. Sometimes you just need some care to help feel better.

[LittleCelticLass]

I prefer being sweet and playful to bratty. Call me sweet names and play with me and I will melt. I can be feisty and sassy sometimes, but I think I am more princess than bratt.

[Akuchiakuba]

I prefer being sweet and playful to bratty. Call me sweet names and play with me and I will melt. I can be feisty and sassy sometimes, but I think I am more princess than bratt.

Thank you so much for posting! You sound like a really fun person. ^^ I don't think I have much sass, but I bet you rock it really well.