Maybe I'm too bratty...

[Zacdak]

I'm sorry if this is long. My Daddy gives me the freedom to be exactly who I am, whether it's being jealous or insecure or bratty. All he asks for is my total surrender and submission. Well I'm an older baby girl and I was married for 18 years to a man who did not like the real me so I became who he wanted me to be. Well now I have an amazing man who is so good to me but I worry that when I'm overly bratty, which stems from me being insecure, maybe he won't love me either. Maybe I'm just too flawed? Does any other little struggle with this? Do any Daddy's have any advice? Thank you!

[Guest Professor Optics]

Best thing to do is to ask him. Only he can tell you what is too much for him and what isn't. If you're unsure, reach out to him and say you feel that you may be too bratty. He'll either agree, and talk about what you can do to dial it down a notch or two, or he will be okay with it. Really the best thing is to communicate with him and ask him

[tayiie]

Like previous said, talk about it. It's important to talk about how you feel so your partner knows about it. If you feel like you are being too bratty, maybe you want your partner to improve that part of yourself? But if he says he is alright with you being bratty then you shouldn't worry too much. But talk about it! Talking to my daddy about things that makes me insecure always helps me feel more confident in myself and my actions/behavior 

[Guest Arc]

Communication is so important. We can tell you what we think but only he's able to actually tell you what's right. Just tell him you're a bit unsure what he can tolerate, and make sure he knows he can tell you to tone it down if it ever gets too much.

[LittleKitten13]

I also struggle a lot when it comes to my littleness.  I'm always afraid I'm annoying papa or he will leave me because of it.  Just talk to him, be very open with him.  Trust is scary and it hurts sometimes, especially if you've been through abusive relationships, but it's worth working on <3  I wish you the best.

[Zacdak]

Thank you guys for the advice! I did talk to him and I do feel better. I really appreciate you taking the time to respond!