Little boy needing some help?

[thegayoliveboy]

Hey soo.. I'm hoping its pretty opened minded here because I'm wanting some advice. So I'm 22,gay, and have a boyfriend. This is the first boyfriend I've had in my life and I feel very, I don't know how else to say, little to him. He's so just daddy like and he says things sometimes that really just get to me. Recently I had to to go on a trip to see him since he's away from a job he got with a university for the summer, and before I left he was saying things like "have x?have y? let daddy help you pack" and it really just got to me lol. during our visit I got grumpy with him because I didn't want to go out of bed and he started to dress me out of nowhere and I was just very flustered and complaining. I of course liked it and my complaining said so (I'm kind of a brat to him on the daily lol). Anyway, the next day we were just relaxing and talking and he mentioned that he doesn't need to have kids because he feel like he already has one, referring to me. He's pretty in the vanilla world compared to me. He has done kinky things with me already and is opened to doing more but how do I even introduce this to him? I've never felt this way with a guy before and id like to explore it. Thank you! Any type of daddy or little can respond; every insight is great

Edited June 5, 2018 by thegayoliveboy

[lildebbie]

From what you're saying it sounds like you both already know that this is a dynamic you might enjoy. Talk about it openly and basically say what you've said here. That you are having these feelings toward him and you feel like he has hinted (actually it seems like he said it when he called himself Daddy) at something like it, and you'd like to talk about it more. If you're feeling shy about it maybe show him or link this site or maybe send a meme about it that you identify with to him and say you're curious about it or something like that. Read as much as you can about it and figure out what about it you're interested in and if there's anything that you want to try out and talk with him and see what he thinks. Remember that you can try different things and see what works for you and be open about what you want and need, and you can always talk about something if you want to change something about your relationship. If he's going to be your Daddy you need to be able to be open with him. He clearly likes taking care of you and that's a huge part of it. Good luck!