Tomboy little?

[diddlydoodlydee]

So, I'm not really new to dd/lg but I kind of am in a way? I've only had one dd/lg relationship and he was a great dom but not really a great daddy. I always felt like the daddy aspect was more something he just thought was kinda hot than something he WAS. But what I want is a real daddy. Only problem is, sometimes I don't feel like a real little.

I've never really been a "girly girl." I hate glitter, the color pink makes me gag, and I've only recently accepted that dresses can be cute. Don't get me wrong, I love my stuffies and coloring and sometimes all I want to do is sit in my pjs with my cat and watch Frozen and Sofia the First. But there's also times when I just wanna watch nothing but superhero movies and play action-y video games.

I guess what I really want to know is.. Is it super weird to be a tomboy but still a little? And if it is, how am I supposed to find a daddy who wants a little like me? 

[TinyItalian]

It's not weird at all! There is no "Real way" to be a little! Being a tomboy is totally fine! There are many littles/middles of every gender who like all sorts of colors or fashions. It's all up to you and what you want to do, never let anyone tell you otherwise. It's okay to like Frozen AND superhero movies, because they're all great movies! And on the Daddy/caregiver aspect, you will find the right daddy! Don't rush things, the timing will be right and it'll happen, because you're a great person and not being into girly things doesn't make you any less of a little than someone who does like girly things. You will meet someone who's gonna want to play video games with you and don't feel obligated to change who you are for someone else.

[LB Chris]

In the wider 'Littles' world this comes up often.Our sense of being little or middle comes from within and that way is influenced by our own experiences of it, not that you can't add to that sense here and now and for all of us it's different.

Many of us did love the more cutsy side, the Princesses, the often frilly dresses, playing with dollies (dolls are for playing with!), dressing baby and so on but that's not everyone as maybe you liked things more like playing with trucks, space rockets or more physical games, never mind wearing shorts or dungarees more and both are fine.

I'm a mixture of the two, quite a few folk are and it's okay too.

I don't think anyone should feel they have change how they feel just fit in any idea of what being a little or middle *should* be and that also applies to boys.

The caregiver you need is the one who loves and respects you as the little or middle you are.

Final word: "It's never too late to have a happy childhood"

[diddlydoodlydee]

Thanks guys