How Do I Go About Finding A Potential DD/CG?

[sleepypersonality]

I’m curious on how I go about finding a potential dd/cg.

 

I’m too shy to just message anyone and I want to take it slow. How do I find one if I’m too shy to even message a potential partner? What tips can you give me? I’m honestly stuck.

[Guest Spookycupcake]

Well I would say post an ad but you also need to be careful because there are a lot of fake daddies out there. Or fake people in general, really. Its the internet so you have to be extra careful. I met my daddy on here and he messaged me first.

[WhysperKit]

I guess I'm going to be a little backwards ^-^" Some things to watch out for~

 

- Want to be called Daddy/Papa/etc. immediately

- Want to set up rules immediately 

- Launch into calling you pet names without asking first

- Wanting nudes immediately 

- Want to "play" sexually without getting to know you first (this can vary though from person to person)

- Want a relationship without getting to know you first

 

If you can watch out for these, you can likely find someone that's worth vetting! I would say chat about the forums, find events in your location (if you're into going to in-person events) and attend them. Find people you have hobbies in common with! I found my Daddy through work! Sometimes the least likely people are the ones that end up being "the one" for you. Just take it slow and avoid sub-frenzy: jumping for the first person to offer to be your DD/CG, getting into a DD/LG dynamic without finding out what they are like as a person and outside of romantic relationships. 

 

Good luck!  

~Ginger

[Guest Arc]

Maybe try posting a personal and mention that you want to talk and get to know each other first - that you are in no rush and you need someone who respects the pace you would like to go at. Anyone who genuinely has interest in you will respect that you may take a little more time than others.