I need some help..

[2777]

Ehm, hi fellow littles, subs etc. I have a tiny problem. Its not really that big of a deal, but it still botheres me a lot, therefore i decided to ask here.

 

My daddy prefer that i have long-ish, and natural hair. I on the other hand, really really want to cut my hair short-ish and dye it. I know im an adult, and that i can take my own choices, but ofc i wanna look the way my Master/Daddy prefers me to look.

 

What would you do? Any similar situations?

 

 

 

My Master is in no way controlling, or abusive. Just throwing that out there so no one misunderstands.

 

 

Appreciate answers

[Guest You're adorable.]

I am not a little, but I too prefer long natural hair. I love it actually. Like, a lot. But I don't think I would force my little to not cut it. I would be a little displeased, but it's her body and she can do what she wants with it. I would say, like in any situation to talk about it. 

 

You should show him the style that you want to have, you can browse some catalogs or the internet, maybe you will find some hairstyle that both of you will like. I like to get engaged in things like makeup that my little likes, or the way she likes to style her hair etc. I am sure it will be pleasant experience for both of you and you will maybe find something new that you both enjoy. 

 

Unless he really isn't into it ofc.

 

Just a little thought from my side, I hope it will be helpful.

[xBabydollx]

It depends honestly. Do u have a TPE with ur Master? How much control/submission do u give him in various aspects of ur life? Is ur appearance something u have given him control of?

 

If I had in advanced, already agreed to giving my Master control of my appearance, then I would let him know how I feel about it, but I would let the final decision be his because this sort of control I had already consented to giving.

 

If we had not already agreed to him having control of my appearance, then we will talk and discuss this level of submission. If this area of my life was off limits for him to control, then I would hear his opinion on the topic, but make the final decision myself.

 

It all truly depends. That's how I would do it tho. Alternatively, there is nothing like talking and finding a sweet compromise if possible.

[Misha]

This is just me.. I know some others wouldn't agree.

 

Personally I wouldn't do it because I would be unhappy knowing that my Daddy/Dom/Master didn't like it and that would make me self conscious. You would know in the back of your head that he doesn't like it..

Edited May 30, 2018 by Misha

[2777]

thx for the response, i appreciate it. I mentioned it for him once again, but he was still very against the whole thing. Im most likely just gonna keep it as it is for now lol

[Guest Arc]

Personally.... I would try work out what's more important to me. Having something how I really want it, or having someone potentially unhappy at what I had done but then get over it cos they can't change it. :/

 

I wouldn't cut or dye my hair if it would make a partner unhappy. But that's me. I try please everyone lol. 

[Guest infinitecases]

Honestly, you only get to live your life once, hair (almost) always grows back, and whilst I would personally keep my hair long to keep my Daddy happy, if dying my hair and cutting it short atleast once in my life was really important to me, I'd express this to my Daddy and tell him I'd like to do it just the once, to see what it'd be like. 

 

Is dying your hair really important to you? If not, try not to think about it too much. If it really is that important to you, even though he'd like it long, just make sure he understands this, and also know that it might make him quite unhappy - but perhaps he'll see it from your point of view? 

[Guest SUeB]

There is no definite answer we can give you. It's the same with me. He likes long hair, i want short hair, but i have it long to please Him. But that's me. This is your relationship, and we can't tell you what to do. All we CAN tell you to do, is have an adult conversation with him. One of you is obviously going to have to relent.

[Lola Step]

This might sound silly so sorry in advance but what about wigs? Theyre7very popular right now and it's a non permanent way to see how both you and your Daddy feel about a hairstyle with actually committing to it, plus he might find he really like your hair short or coloured, or you might find it's not really for you, either way it sounds like a good test run but sorry if it sounds silly

[MadelynVictoria]

In my opinion, it's your hair, so this should be your choice. I know we all want to please our dom, but again, it's YOUR hair. If you want to do it, go for it

[CrazyLittleBuggaBoo]

Well it all comes down to you and how important it is to your personality to be happy. Expressing myself throw how I look is important to me. I'm pretty sure Mister Master perfers natural hair but he also knows how important it is for my to express myself in ways that are me. It makes me happy, and me being happy is important to him. All you can really do is talk to him about it. If it's really bugging you, explain it to him. He'll ether be accepting or not. You might come to a comprise, you might cut your hair and not dye it or dye your hair and not cut it. It really just depends on how important it really is to yourself.