How Common/Uncommon is Non-Sexual DDlg? I'm curious.

[sleepypersonality]

I've been doing research and on another forum site, there was a question of if it's possible to have a Non-Sexual DDlg relationship. 

 

From what I've read it's possible, but I'm curious about how common it is. I know you don't have to be sexual until you're ready, it's all about consent. But I'm genuinely curious about how common/uncommon it is. 

 

Please and thank you, for your answers! 

[PrincessPear]

I don't know how popular it is, but the dynamic I have with my daddy isn't rooted in sex. It's rooted in love. We can be sexual together, but that is not the bulk of our relationship.

 

I'm also into non-sexual ageplay. There are a lot of littles who aren't sexual about it. For me, feeling little or middle is not an inherently sexual feeling. For me, littlespace is an experience in its own right. However, I can be sexual while being little or middle. It's just not the default for me.

 

It seems like non-sexual littles outnumber sexual littles. Or does it? I'm wondering how others perceive the ratio. I'm interested.

[WhysperKit]

I know that my DDLG dynamic is not sexual at all. I'm unsure how common or uncommon this is, but that's just how mine is personally. We have other dynamics that are sexual, but DDLG isn't one of them. It's purely loving and caring.

[mintypowder]

I'm talking with what I've come across so far, there are people who don't carry out a ddlg relationship with it's sexual aspects, plus there are also people who carry out a ddlg relationship only with it's sexual aspects.

 

From what I've seen, non-sexual ddlg relationships aren't as common as those who are sexual; however non-sexual one is not rare at all and that does not mean such relationship is not suitable to be maintained but for sex.

[xBabydollx]

For me DD/lg is sexual, but my littlespace in particular is nonsexual. This is how it is for most ppl I come across or read about, but as u know, there is other variants out there

[Guest Arc]

It's very sexual for me. Some people are just non sexual in the dynamic, and sexual in other ways/times. Some are non sexual altogether. I'd say both are common, but people may not talk about it much. 

[Guest LeftyGuitar]

I think it depends on the person. For me it can be very sexual, but I'm just very sexual in general. For others it may not be sexual at all. It really comes down preference.

[LittleKitten13]

The more I learn about ddlg the more I think I'm actually not ddlg, I age regress as a coping mechanism, and often I can't or struggle to control when I go into little space.

That being said, nothing papa and I do when I am little is sexual.  We might be sexual when we're both big, but anything sexual scares little me.

[Guest Fleur-Angelique]

Whatever relationships I've had have been non-sexual. I will never be able to be little and sexual at the same time. But sex gives me pretty much nothing to begin with. It would be something I would give my partner for their pleasure alone and that would be my reward but that is something for 'big' me to decide. I know it cannot be very common this way. I have only ever seen one daddy who wanted exactly what I dod - but we were on opposite ends of the world so that didnt work. In the end i think either relationship is practised but we are all out here looking for that perfect match and some of us may comprise  either which way.

[Maids]

Ofcourse it is possible!

 

For the most part, Daddy and I don't have a sexual DDlg relationship. Obviously when I'm regressed to a 3-6 year old, getting dicked down isn't on my mind. But we do some of the nonos when I'm not so little. huehue.

 

For me personally, D/s is a more sexual thing for me rather than involving DDlg. When we are doing the nonos, it's more so D/s related than DDlg related, we just happen to use some of the same petnames for eachother.

[ThePlushiePrincess]

I'm so happy to find this topic! From my experience, I've been seeing so many sexual relationships and people that I've been starting to feel like I'll never find a CG as an asexual Little. I'm glad to see it does exist. 

[xolittle_kittyox]

When I’m in little space, I don’t want daddy to touch me sexually in any way. In fact, it actually makes me angry when I’m obviously little and he wants to smack my butt or touch me inappropriately. My little space is strictly non sexual. Of course we do have a sexual relationship, but it is outside of little space.