Having a mommy on the side

[littlelamb]

Haveing a momy who is not in a "s.oi" relationship with you , but who visits or contacts to give some aspects of mommy suff that daddy doesnt ? ideas. suggestions comment?

[Guest benleigh]

Well, I don't know if I can be of much help to you, but maybe I can share my views with you. In truth, I a and am not a "little" at the same time. There may be fat chance of it, but I would like to find a "mommy." I like to imagine myself as a very naughty, 14-year-old boy whose mom is is loving but very strict, and does not hesitate to paddle me when I misbehave. If I can't find a mom, I would like to find someone "part-time," a female babysitter, an older sister or some other care-giver. Anyway, my real mom died when I was only 12, and though my dad did a good job raising me, I didn't get to experience much of the feminine part of the relationship between a son and his parents, and I know that has affected me detrimentally. I don't know if my message will--at all--assist you in your search. Just know that you're kind of not alone. Really, I don't know entirely what to expect at this site; I know there are role-reversals and--maybe--I can find a mommy or big sister, but in lieu of that, since I was a teacher, maybe I can be a semi-"daddy" to a little--male or female; but I'm a bachelor and have no children of my own. Still, maybe as a "daddy" I can develop long-lasting relationships--as friends, and I can offer advice when needed, though I am by no means a disciplinarian; I am very much a sub. Well, good luck on your search!