Little or Middle?

[pinksparkle]

I have a question. If I identify as a 6-year-old when I'm in my little space, would I be considered a little or a middle? I like to color, play with toys, and do other "older kid" type activities but I'm highly independent on my daddy and still like to suck my thumb and drink from sippy cups and do other more "baby-like" stuff. Thank you!

[Guest lalalaluna]

I don't think there's any hard and fast rules regarding it, but to me it sounds more like a little. Is your confusion maybe not taking into account the lower end of the spectrum/ ABDL? To me anyway, adult baby is infant to around 2, then little-ing between 3 and 8. Around 9 is where I think it becomes middle-ing.

 

In my understanding, as a middle myself and knowing other middles, we tend to be more independent. For myself, anyway, I like to journal (with stickers and glitter pens), read- often YA but I "sneak" more adult books; i like edgier genres of things like horror and thrillers, but still find myself drawn to more baby-ish things (although I tend to deny it lol). For some of us (not all!) we also tend to be a little more open sexually. Just hormonal pre-teens and teens finding that edge of their personalities, although not always following through.

 

Again, there's no rules here and these are all my own observations.

[Guest Appacheian]

I would agree. Think on the scale of baby, preteen, early teen. Somewhere there is where you feel you are. It’s unique to you

[Guest BabyPeach]

You are a little! <3

[PrincessShannon]

https://www.wattpad.com/468923751-cgl-ddlg-guide-determining-little-ages

http://daddys-doll.blogspot.com/2014/03/the-difference-between-ddlg-and-ageplay.html

You dont have to be an age to be a little 

[pinksparkle]

Thank you everyone for your help! I've always been one to prefer clarity in labeling myself, so now I feel confident calling myself a little. 

[Guest Arc]

Honestly, just go with whatever feels right to you. Littles can still be independent, and middles can still do baby-like things. It's all just a spectrum thing, and nobody can tell you you're wrong for whatever you pick.