Angry Daddy

[Guest Princesses]

My Daddy gets angry a lot. Or at least he seems angry a lot. It seems that every time I voice my opinion about something or when I make plans for my future he basically yells at me saying it's a bad opinion or a bad decision. Recently he's been yelling at me for no reason. I've told him many times I don't like it and he says he's never angry in those situations. He says he's never angry even though his face and his voice say otherwise. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm done being yelled at but I keep going back to him. I'm lost and I don't know what to do. I love him so much and I can't imagine my life without him

[Guest SUeB]

You've basically answered your own question. You keep going back to him. He knows he can treat you any way he wishes, and you'll simply let him.

[Guest lalalaluna]

my Ex Daddy was like this, too. my opinions were always wrong, my friends were all bad, any time i was upset was an event to be yelled at and diminished for "causing drama".

 

in the end, you know exactly what your two options are: Stay or Go

 

choose whats going to make your happy and be good for you in the long term. i chose to leave. it was hard, and scary, and i still miss him, but its opened the door to me finding someone that really understands me and makes me happy.  if you stay, maybe he learns and changes, but if he brushes you off now, the chances of that are slim.

 

you had a life before him, you will have a life after him. 

[DaddysHands]

If you do t live with him leave him now. If you have a place to go live with him or not just go. Nobody's business..you had a break up.

[mintypowder]

I'm sorry if what I am about to say offends you in some kind of way but, reading what you wrote made me think of one thing: abuse. I mean why would he name every opinion of yours awful or insignificant? Your voice must be paid attention if this is a relationship. Yelling? I even get up against parents who rudely warn their children. There's no excuse for yelling. I think you should tell him to do something about his ignorant and primitive manner. You were born alone honey, I believe you won't die without him. Love is never an excuse for such uneducated and abusive behaviour. I've been with someone who imbalancedly got mad at me in some situations, even that made me feel as if I was not human. Your love pain will never hurt you as terribly as having been treated this way. Yet the deciding is up to you. I wish the best for you, take care. And sorry again if my reply sounded too impolite, the situation just got me really pissed.

[Guest Arc]

In my opinion anger is just a lack of control, and how can you trust someone with a lack of control? I'm sorry but this doesn't sound healthy from how you have explained it here, though I could be wrong because I'm just going off what is said. 

 

When you're with someone it's hard to imagine life without them. That's perfectly normal, but you need to know in your mind that it's possible to move on and be happy if that is what would be best for you. I'm not telling you to leave him but if this is getting to you and isn't changing you need to have a think about what is in your best interest. 

[Guest Princesses]

Thank you so much for your replies. I gave him one last chance. I've said it before but this time I really mean it. I just hope he finally changes

[Guest SUeB]

Thank you so much for your replies. I gave him one last chance. I've said it before but this time I really mean it. I just hope he finally changes

Just be aware that you will no doubt be saying the exact same thing in a week or two. He has absolutely no reason to change. But good luck. i might sound blunt, but this is how it is.

[Pinkegobox]

Lots of great comments here and well done for telling him it's his last chance. Remember that you've told him a few times that his behaviour wasn't acceptable and he's still gone back to it. If he keeps doing it now then he's not going to RESPECT your wishes. If he doesn't respect you then he won't listen to you. If he doesn't respect you, get out!

[Guest violeta]

Sometimes is hard to move away from abusive/bad partners, but always keep in mind you deserve love (no matter what) and not being yelled for no reason! It might hurt at first but it will heal, I promise.