Am I a bad little/not a real little if I don't regress?

[itty-bitty-narwhal]

So I have been feeling a bit down lately. It's because I feel like I'm a bad little because I can't really regress often. I feel like I'm faking because I see all these people who can regress and can be their little age and it's extremely difficult for me to do so. Nearly impossible. Am I still a valid little even if I can't fully go into the headspace? Any advice would be appreciated.

[RavenclawPrincess]

Of course you are! I'm a 24/7 little and don't regress at all. My little side is fully integrated into my personality so that aspect is always present. Everyone is different and that is perfectly ok. There is no "one right way" and as long as you are being yourself that's all that matters

[Guest Little Otter]

Whaaa no youre a little! You dont have to regress to be a little. Do ya like to act like a kid? If yes, youre a little lol

[xBabydollx]

Try not to compare ur self to other littles. We are not all the same. Some of us age regress, and some of us dont. Some of us is in a 'littlespace' nearly 24/7 while others only enter 'littlespace' periodically. Some littles never exp 'littlespace' at all. Comparing ur self to others will always set u up for failure. Yes, u are a valid little, jest not with a constant, or daily 'littlespace' and that is perfectly ok

[mintypowder]

You don't have to fit in a certain type of manner in order to be valid hon, have a nice day. <3

[Guest Babykitkat 23]

Don't feel about your self not going fully in to headspace. Your a little and your a good little. You don't have to validate your self or feel like you don't add up to other littles. Your different from everyone else. I'm a little nearly every other day, but thats because I just naturally am that way. Forcing your self in to something might alter your little personality. It's like forceing a plant to grow. You just can't make it happen. It takes it's time and when it's ready it will show. Be your self and don't feel about it.

[Guest SUeB]

i do not regress, and my age is always my biological age. That makes me no less an lg than anyone who regresses regularly and claims a younger age than their real age.

[itty-bitty-narwhal]

Thank you to everyone ^-^ I feel much better about everything now 

[Big Daddy D]

There's such a wide spectrum of Littles and CG's. There is no guidebook on how to do it right, because we all do it a bit differently. You do whatever feels right for you, whatever that is someday you'll find a CG who thinks you're perfect. Some littles wear and use diapers, some just wear, and some don't incorporate them at all. None of those choices are wrong if that's what feels right to you. So by that same logic, it can't be wrong to decide you can use your big girl voice even when you feel little. Edited May 17, 2018 by Big Daddy D

[Guest Arc]

There's no right or wrong way, or good or bad way to be a little. Some littles don't regress at all, and that doesn't make them any less of a little. 

 

You're still a little and you are still valid. Try not to stress about it because it will make it harder to relax and enjoy yourself as a little